a couple questions about REM / clairvoyance

[thenoob]

two quesitons:

as I drift off to sleep, and I feel the 'pulsing' and dream / expansion, my woman told me that my eyes physically begin to blink fast even though my eye lids are closed, she joked that it is 'seizure-like' ... what does it mean? I knew that this happened but I didn't know it was discernable from the outside --- does this happen when people go into REM sleep? or does it mean nothing?

ALSO another thing, me and my woman, as we napped together this afternoon, the usual subconscious whispers I hear as I drift off --- which are just thoughts which kind of come on their own and make no sense--someone here  on astral pulse said this is a form of clairvoyance... well today as I was drifting off to nap with my her, that subconscious whisper felt like it was from her, basically saying this is difficult and we must focus.

After the nap she said she also heard something from me, though I didn't remember communicating that to her, and vice versa... keep in mind we weren't planning on telepathcailly communicating like this, so it wasn't a placebo... but is it possible that it was clairvoyance??

[CFTraveler]

clairvoyance-clear seeing.
clairaudience-clear hearing.

It can be from your subconscious, or hers.  My hubby and I used to have shared dreams all the time-it happens.  I personally think they're processed by your own subconscious, which is 'full on' when you're in this state, but in your case you can tell where it came from.  This is not always the case, so kudos to you both.