Every time I start writing down my deams for a few weeks my dreams become clearer with time and I remember them more. But I also noticed that when I go in and out from sleep when im not tired I get more easily to a state of lucid dreaming. Almost in every lucid Dream I remember feeling a feeling of joy or love which feel incredible. Why is it always such a good feeling in lucid Dreams? It feels so real until you wake up and lose that feeling.
Why does it feel less real afterwards? Was it not a true experience?
I think it only feels less real to some because they have accepted that this physical reality is all there is.
Whether it happened in your waking life or a non physical experience of any sort, it is a memory now and what criteria makes one memory real and the other not...without invoking discussion on memory manipulation and implant.
It isn't a matter of losing that feeling of joy and love, it is a matter of finding it again. :-)