Hi again,
A big thankyou to the people who replied with valuable input, I really appreciate it. One person told me to actually ask to see reality just in case I
was caught up in a "fake" dream type scenario. I had actually made a command in my head for "clarity now" as I had read about this in William
Buhlman's book. I did get clarity in terms of my vision which had been very hazy to start with and it did become very clear and sharp but this still does
not mean I was seeing reality so perhaps I should ask for reality next time. I will also ask for my guide to help as someone else suggested. I am still
sure that I did not know this garden I went to last time but my only thought is that during my waking hours I often think that if I get out of my body I
really want to find proof for my sister that her husband who passed over quite young, is actually there in the other dimension and she will see him again.
I have asked her if she knows of this garden and she will speak to her in-laws. I am still waiting to hear. The other thing I would really appreciate some reassurance about is that it may be ages before I am able to get out again. There was actually three years between my first fully conscious projection and my second. A few times in between I managed to get my arms or legs out and could get no further. My dearest wish is to do this on a regular basis. Please tell me this is possible as it is easy to get discouraged. Thanks everyone.
Hi Tyrer,
Thats been my main frustration of this too. I succeeded in an awesome astral projection. Its like stepping in a huge candy shop the size of a warehouse. yet only getting 5 seconds in there before being whipped out again. Then a huge huge wait before you get another chance. There is so much to learn and discover, and I want to spend more time in an astral state. I want to control it, I want to experience more.
But, I have found it so so difficult to get back. I did it twice since, and it lasted meer seconds. When I feel like I need hours and hours.
Patience is a serious virtue in this case. You have to keep going at it. Keep learning keep getting your mind back in the state.. Some people do learn to project frequently, others not.