tests!!! again with the tests..

[the8reader]

ap'ed a bit this morning but just didn't have the energy for it so it turned into the test dreams.. I usually don have problems with them, probably because they are mostly fear tests.

So what I was wondering is. What kind of tests are theses ones.. Today as I said my ap turned into a test dream thing. Had to have been cuz I had 2 or three. So in a nut shell they are dealing with my gf and my insecurities and man do they get me outright mad. So it's very funny I know I am dreaming and I know what's going on but I still just can't keep the rage monster in the cage when I get theses once. What happens is they play on my strong feeling and insecurities. of my gf cheating, finding someone better, meeting new men and saying how it felt like a dream to meet them, guys from her past hitting on her again, (by the way that has been happening this week, Not fun), just dumb stuff like that.

has anyone else had these test or do I need to talk to a shrink haha. these dreams ruin my whole day as well and makes me very uncomfortable around my gf.... fm brain...

[nikolai]

I often have tests too buddy so I empathise completely,

Also you might have noticed that the dream test often spills into physical life. In other words you may have dreams at night of being tested (lets say to overcome issues of insecurity) and then you wake up, start the day, and during the day something will rise up that will trigger this test in a physical environment (Eg: you will feel very insecure, angry or anything as such). Have you noticed anything like this?

I say it because I noticed this very clearly in my life. The night time tests often spill into the next physical day or couple of days.

My tests are of a slightly different nature, I abstain from any kind of sexual activity (no women, no sex, no porn, no any kind of lust satisfaction) so the tests I typically receive in dreams are to do with lust temptations

I noticed that these can be divided into different 'types' for me. These are:
1. I would get seduced by a 'hot' woman or two into actually having sex with them, and I give in.
2. I would be seduced by a 'loving' woman (usually plays the role of one of my ex's that I truly loved) into having sex with her, and I might give in or not. I would wake up in the physical feeling very lonely and anxious.
3. I would be seduced by either 'hot' or 'loving' woman but I would not give in, we would only kiss.
4. I would be seduced by either 'hot' or 'loving' woman and I would not give in and I would not even let her kiss me.

These scenarios repeat over and over and over again, my dream log is full of them. Which option I choose during the dream will influnce the next day and the next couple of days in physical reality (eg: when I go for option '4' the next couple of days I am full of energy and motivation; if I give in to option '1' the next couple of days I fluctuate with anxiety and worry in physical reality)

Now, these tests are spilling out into my 'trips' (lucid dreams/phase's), I am receiving the same tests and keep failing over and over (its hard to resist 2 super hot women especially who are also lovely and friendly to you - in a lucid dream, especially if you are only semi-lucid; now no wonder I fail such dreams if I am not lucid at all but simply going with the flow. This is teaching me I need to develop a stronger 'intent' not to give during physical days, so that it can then spill into the non-physical life).

Have noticed anything like this in your life, like a connection between dream and physical experiences?

[the8reader]

I can say that this does happen. ex: she has old bf's and other guys that will contact her after all this and sometimes befor. So it does pop up for real, i dont get that mad but it is hard when you love some one so much and then you have all theses things trying to get in the way. i do know she only wants me. Then i again its hard to belave i met someone like her, i also dont think i am that great. I do control the rage monster well in the real world, but i bottle him up, maby i need to let him out.. But then last time i did it was not good.

I Also feel like exploding after theses dreams. i go and work out to help or have some fun time with the gf... this dosent seem to work all the time. fighting helps so i started going to this ata place to spar with people. idk y it feels good to get it out this way.. maby the pain lets me know i am still here.. its hard and it strains our relationship. its all me to, not like she can help that old history calls her or contacts her.. but it bothers me and i am working hard on it and it getss better untill i have these tests and all back to square one. sorry for the bad sentenceing. i dont have time to spell check as i am at work.

[Szaxx]

Hi,
Take it from the old timer. To solve this test, simply bring your present gf into the equasion. They soon stop then you will get bigger tests on your uncontrolled emotions.
Patience and understanding solves many of these tests. You have to gain your awareness to take control of the situation you're in. That is usually the first problem and the biggest. Once done your scenario changes.
Safe travels.

[the8reader]

i know. and that is what scares me cuz if i bring her into this and she is kinda cuz i bring it up. i will lose her in a flash. so i am finding a new path around it to grow.. that is great infor though. thanks a ton...

[WiZe]

I have a lot of fear test dreams, they always seem to be of me fighting or getting jumped or something/someone chasing me and whoever I'm with in the dream. I remember just the other night I met some new military guys older then me and I felt as if they were jealous of me because the female we were with was feeling me and I'm only about to be 18. That night I had a dream here they were trying to jump me and my friend but in the dream it never happend, I ended up running like I do a lot in those situations. But they never arise in real life, its more of everyone is friendly and they enjoy me.

But to me it sounds like you may know your gf only loves and wants you but deep down there is still that insecurity/anger/etc that you need to accept and release/integrate every time those emotions arise. For me, I'm down right happy(satisfied) if anything like a fight or me being jumped happens, because I know its going to help me in the future. I accept that but every now and then the fear still arises. Now they hardly ever arise after I accept the emotions and release or integrate those emotions into a love for anything that happens.

[the8reader]

i agree with you a ton on that. its just another hurldle to get over. but this one sucks the big one. i would like to know is there anyone out there that is also haveing trouble with tests? how many diff ones are there? i have only run into 3. the fear, this insicurity one or waht have you. and a flight test i would call it. idk had this one alot, i was scared to fly and i would crash over and over again. i have gotten the fear and flying down. this last one is a bit hard

[Szaxx]

Hi,
@ 8reader,
I was thinking of you bringing her into your dream. Its not difficult to do, know you're dreaming, with this predicament thats easy, then thnk of her entering the dream and ' sorting things out' her own way. Always know she loves you.

[the8reader]

i will have to try that. thanks

[Lionheart]

 These tests are a way of showing you progress. They are also there to help you with memory recall. If you read through my posts in my profile you will see that I have actually experienced a "Astral School" scenario earlier in my development and this was full of tests. Nowadays I find more puzzles than anything. Puzzles and new challenges will always keep you on your toes and will never make the Wider Reality seem like a boring place to be. Accepting these tests, challenges, puzzles and overcoming or answering them is what shows you how you are progressing along your desired path or towards your personal goals.
Good Luck and Safe Travels!  

[the8reader]

These tests are a way of showing you progress. They are also there to help you with memory recall. If you read through my posts in my profile you will see that I have actually experienced a "Astral School" scenario earlier in my development and this was full of tests. Nowadays I find more puzzles than anything. Puzzles and new challenges will always keep you on your toes and will never make the Wider Reality seem like a boring place to be. Accepting these tests, challenges, puzzles and overcoming or answering them is what shows you how you are progressing along your desired path or towards your personal goals.
Good Luck and Safe Travels!  

agree with this 100%.. just going to have to work on controling my emotions. had another one befor i woke up today. it was a friend and we got into a scuffle and i just let him beat me up and i just got thrown around like a rag doll. that is deff not normal for me. i think i am really low on energy, also ive been stress as i have a big move comming. It is also a big move in my life. i ap a day or to ago and i got out and had zero motivation i would call it. so def time for more energy work as well. thanks for the info