dont know if its real?

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thanks DEberryjr, i needed to know some of these. if any one else has comments or answers id apprieciate it.

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Hi,
my best friend directed me to this forum because i was curiouse about what happened to me and wanted to see if what happened was real or dream.

ok....it started when i was about ten, i was faking being sick at my grand mas and she told me to go to sleep if i was so sick. well i wasnt relly tired at all but i did as she told me. i layed down on a nice comfy bed with fluffy pillows and blankets. i wasnt tired like i said but i felt so comfortable. then it happened!...it was as if i fell asleep in less than a second. i felt rubbing on my back(i was lying on my stomach) i was kinda scared but in a sense i wasnt and didnt know why??well in my mind i said "Please no dont do that" and repeded it several times. then i gave in and said ok its all right if you do that.all of a sudden i lifted into the air paralized straight up (like lying on a stiff board) and seen the window across my view.now it was dark out but everything in the room was now lit but not lit by light. i could just see gray tones (black and white) but it was enough to see the room, or atleast infront of me. i fellt this butterfly feeling in my belly or a little above and i got scared and i said "ok this is enough"and bam i slammed down but not hard just fast and my eyes were open. at first i thought i was lifted by a ghost so i ran down stairs and told my grandma.being christan"very" she said it probably was my gardian angel to heal my sick. well i wasnt sick at all so i didnt know what to think.
Years past by....
about a year ago i was staying at a friends. they decided to go to sleep and turn off the tv but tired i was not so i just relaxed and shut my eyes and thought about upcomming plans.
then bamm!!......
my eyes were open but it was light now. before you could see a thing and now i seen a very bright black and white(almost blue toned) room just butt it was during the day. my body slowly lifted upward at an angle to be parallel with the wall infront of me now.i "floated?" twards the hall way and turned right to an entrance to a room i havent seen before " my friends room" i seen them as plain as day sleeping on theyre bed. i looked around a bit as i was slowly heading more in to the room. all of a sudden my body wanted to go twards the wall and it felt as if my body was going to go through it. at the same tome i felt this butterflish feeling in my chest like i did as a kid and i got scared thinking i would go through the wall. why did i get scared of going into the wall i will never know cause i was fine before that its just my body had a mind of its own. so i freaked and felt a yank on my chest and bam my eyes opened in a dark very dark room. so i turned on the lights and peeked into my friends bedroom and i saw them in the same position and same night atire that i seen them just a couple senconds before.
now my questions are as fallows:

a.were these expieriences in OBE?
b.if so why the feeling in my chest like butterflies?
c.why only in monotone colors?
d.why did i have no control over my body until i thought i had enough?
e.why could i see the room clearly in the dark?
f. and finally, why the rubbibg on my back and when i said it was ok the floating commenced?

now i know nothing about  "obe" but i told my friend some stories of my past and he told me some things about "OBE" but im still not clear and would love to find out more
thanks and sorry this was so long but i wanted to get into detail so youd see the moments.
                                                                                           sincerly,jay