How to be sure you really meet your deceased loved ones ?

[Astral_seeker]

The astral being the realm of all illusion, this is a real concern for me.

Supposing that you want to AP and once in the astral realms you decide to go and see your deceased uncle (or brother, father, friend etc)

After a while you are led to that person.

What guarantee do you have to really deal with that deceased loved one ? How to be sure that you're not facing an impostor spirit acting like your [uncle, father, etc] ?

Spirits read minds. We all read minds in the astral. Communication is telepathic. So, supposing that I ask to that person something that only me and him/her knew (for instance "how did you die ?"), what prevents the spirit to read into your mind and to give you the correct answer, making you believe that you're dealing with the right person ?

Is there something unbeattable and which allow one to be 100% sure to really be facing the deceased loved one he wish to meet ?

Thanks

[Xanth]

You don't.
You can't know for 100% certain.

You have to learn to live gracefully with the idea that there are things that you may never know for certain.

Anyway, "is it really your uncle" isn't the question you should be asking.
What's more important is this:  Did you gain something positive or beneficial from the experience of meeting with that "deceased" loved one? 

[Astral_seeker]

You don't.
You can't know for 100% certain.

You have to learn to live gracefully with the idea that there are things that you may never know for certain.

Anyway, "is it really your uncle" isn't the question you should be asking. What's more important is this:  Did you gain something positive or beneficial from the experience of meeting with that "deceased" loved one? 

I'm in a spiritual situation where I need the guidance of a certain deceased loved one. So, yes, this is very important I can reach that particular person to help me in this turn over point in my spiritual life. A projection of my mind as sweet as it could be wouldnt be what I need now. I need to consult THAT deceased loved one, so again, yeah this is actually what is more important for now.

[Bluefirephoenix]

I will add since you guys are typing far quicker than I am. Seek the guidance but understand the best answer may not come from the source you expect it to come from. Be open and don't limit yourself.

[AAAAAAAA]

Use a code. Usually certain "codes" will be unbreakable, but I don't know how well they would work with someone who is already deceased... hmm.

[Xanth]

I'm in a spiritual situation where I need the guidance of a certain deceased loved one. So, yes, this is very important I can reach that particular person to help me in this turn over point in my spiritual life. A projection of my mind as sweet as it could be wouldnt be what I need now. I need to consult THAT deceased loved one, so again, yeah this is actually what is more important for now.

Beyond the fact that you don't need any guidance (just follow your heart)...

Perhaps Tom can answer this better for you:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmkPBrHwQWI