Missed 2 exits from vib state one after another!

[Simo]

How not to get mad?!This morning I've had 2 vibration states in 5 minutes and I failed to exit in both!How about that!

[Greytraveller]

Hallo Simo
Try not to get too discouraged by that. It happens to even the most experienced projectors. Getting out of body is sometimes just a matter or trying, trying and then trying again until it happens.
Better luck next time.

Regards 
Grey

[Xanth]

How not to get mad?!This morning I've had 2 vibration states in 5 minutes and I failed to exit in both!How about that!

How to not get mad?  Just don't. 
You choose how you react to situations you encounter... I feel that part of learning to do this stuff is about learning to control your emotions and thoughts, and this is a byproduct of those lessons.

Don't let your emotions control you... you control them.

Also, realize that there is no "fail".  You can't fail.  You can only learn from each experience/encounter. 
That knowledge alone should tell you why you shouldn't get mad... because, face it, you're going to probably not project most times you attempt when you first start out.  Get that out of your way first.

[Simo]

Well Xanth I really enjoy this experience(the vibrations feeling just cant be described)I try realy hard and I'm tad close to it and something goes wrong(mostly the part where I feel that I don't breathe and try to do It myself which brakes the trance

[Simo]

BTW I didn't mean to use the word mad,maybe disappointed is better describing what I feel.

[urshebear]

Happens to me more often than not. I have only been having OBE's for the past 6months.
Either I just cant get out, I give up because I cant breath, sounds are too annoying or I end up loosing my SP altogether for no apparent reason.
It can be frustrating but oh well its not like you will never be able to try again
Keep at it, determination and all that

[Bellend_1010]

So when your in vibrations what is the sure sign you can exit?

[Simo]

Well I've always done it that way-when vibrations start I roll to my side and I'm out(when I'm lucky that is

[urshebear]

I usually wait for them to climax...

[Simo]

Yes me too,but it happens really fast and I try the exit procedure before something breaks my focus 

[urshebear]

Yeah I might start attempting seperation earlier, could be the reason I lose the vibrations I dont know?

[Simo]

Personaly,when vibrations strike I get the feeling that I need air,but my chest is not expanding by itself I get the feeling that my body wont breathe on it's own and If I  wait I try to breathe myself and the focus is lost

[urshebear]

I usually fight that just by repeating in my head things like "I can breath perfectly fine, deep breaths"
But don't put all your focus on your breathing or you will snap out of it all together.

[CFTraveler]

So when your in vibrations what is the sure sign you can exit?

No.  It's either a sign that you may be in a trance deep enough to get close to an exit, and it can be also a sign of reintegration- but sometimes it comes early in the trance, and not close to an exit at all.

[Simo]

No.  It's either a sign that you may be in a trance deep enough to get close to an exit, and it can be also a sign of reintegration- but sometimes it comes early in the trance, and not close to an exit at all.

Wow I've never thought about it this way thanks CFtraveler!