Why Do These Things Happen to Me?

[darksidessj25]

Last night around 12:30 I started to lie down to go to sleep. I had my computer on to the left of me so I know for a fact that it wasn't my computer. Outta know where I heard a voice of a girl say I'm Dead and it felt like someone was touching me! I even saw a visual image of her which was even freakier. After that I jumped up from my bed and thought someone was there. Turned a movie on from my computer and went to sleep.

The girl looked about 16-17 years old and was in High School. Other than that I don't know anything else.

Some of my dreams as follows: Weird astral projection experience that was in my kitchen. I remember shouting that this wasn't real to someone. After that I found my self in someone's house. This woman said she could help me stop projecting. She said in order to stop projecting I have to see what's going on or something along those lines. After that I lied down started to project again wtf? Just a dream though.

Higher plane?: I was in this weird city where these angels where. There where these bridges with clouds below them. Someone said you can watch people from there but once you cross the bridge... Then it ended. This place seemed kind of magical in a way like some kids fantasy land. I only seen one angel before in a legitimate astral experience. She was standing next to a small child.

[CosmicLo7us]

You'll eventually begin to ignore creepy stuff that happens to you. In fact, it will become a trigger that "oh, I'm about to be out of body". Ignoring it is key. I know that sounds unhelpful now, but eventually, your mind will begin to process it as just part of the induction experience. Eventually, the terror, fright, disturbing phenomena will become subjective.

[Sagar]

Based on my personal experience those are probably just fear tests.  Tests aren't limited to the Astral or "dreams." 
And many people hear/see odd things before projecting, usually when in a trance state.

And I agree, it starts to trigger.  Even when you have projected.  You see frightening things and it triggers like "Oh fear test... Cool."
And if you do that enough, the fear tests get fewer and farther between because you'll move on to new tests.