Having Sex in My Dream

[El-Bortukali]

ut you don't have any wet dreams now?[7quote]

but it's not archaic, I doubt it will ever be.
I once heard a guy say to not have sex would be the worst fate of all.
Many people agree with that. Like I said before, it's OK with
me if you do not want to have sex. I just don't understand why,
since you are such a horny guy. It's kind of scary, like one day you will
implode or bust a vein in your head...[7quote]

Yes it is=o Well,good for them,it's nice to see we have evolved over thousands of years,suprassed huge dificulties so people could enjoy sex -.-

well yeah, I think her body is telling her she needs more sex,
I think your body is telling you to have sex too..hormones do that.

Sex is not a need.It's a lust =D I don't need it to be happy.

that's not going to happen unless you become a eunuch...

Yes,it's gonna happen,i've been seeing Pornographic images,movies etc to make myself indiferent to them,and in the beggining i had an erection,now i don't anymore

It's like in the ancient times whn people would take small ammounts of poisons to make themselfs immune.

Ejaculation leads to stress release, then sleep.

I kick my stress out thanks to martial arts =D

but you are human now, nothing can change that but death.

Evolution can.

you are already connected to all souls. All is One.

Man,that would suck!

you do your part as well to make it seem wrong...

I do? I just pin point Mankind's obsession for sex it's all.

I don't see artificial reproduction as evolution, it's the opposite.

Yeah,giving birth must be a hell of a experience,all that pain and stuff,must be najs(sweet)

Ah,you will see when you reencarnate in the future.=D

just checking.

You thought i was what? 16?

I have had many chances to get "laid" wich i refused and to my amuzent i saw them,the females and males i refused call me gay or impotent hehe xD

psychics who can see the aura say the aura is healthier with sexual love.[7quote]

That's their hormones working.

that reminds me of a movie I saw! eek! it didn't work out..

That's because the script sucked !;o

hah, so funny. [/quote9

I like u2 xD

that's sad.

Yeah,serial killers,rapers,Mass Murderes,Genocide,Rascism,starving,aging, has a weight on my liking of Species.

but you have said you wish to help the human race, how could you be
successful if you do not embrace it...makes me wonder what kind of
help you are thinking of...[7quote]

one needs not to be Human to help mankind.

Look at Jesus Christ,Buddha,Aliens etc


i apologize  if im writting in a hurry my bus to work leaves in 5 minutes!!!! and i still have to get dressed!!

[El-Bortukali]

The Buddha more than anything else was a man, who went from childhood to manhood, got married, and at the age of 29 had his first child. He went through all the stages men go through sexually, but at the age of 35 ended his sexual desire forever in *Nirvana.

he ended his sexual lust/sex/needs whatever, when he made the effort to transcend(you know,become a monk etc)

I'm just starting earlier xD

The Buddha in everything he said about sex implies...The activity of sex will never ultimately satisfy the desire for sex.

Now this is a real bummer if you think about it. You can have sex a 1000 times, and want it a 1001. You can be 90 years old... Blind and cripple... Still want to have sex, and not be physically able to. You will never get rid of your sexual desire by having sex. In fact, it seems the more sex you have, the more sex you want.

I think sex is a lot like hunger... And to be honest with you, I'm so tired of being hungry. I have been hungry every day of my life. I'm hungry in the morning, in the afternoon, in the evening. Think of all the time and money I could save if I gave up eating!

So what if tomorrow, I get up real early and eat as much as I desire, and anything I want. Whatever looks good, I'm going to eat it and keep eating it, until I am so full and satisfied, I will never want to eat again.

Well, if I were to do that what would happen? I would wake up the next morning and still be hungry and sex works the very same way!


I wish life were so easy!

See what i mean,if the hugner continues while try to satisfy it

You might be saying to yourself, "Well Kusala is a monk, and monks don't have sex, so maybe if I choose celibacy I won't have to suffer."

lol i don't think like that.I have no reason to make sex.
I've said that for me the purpose of sex is reproduction,alas i wish not to  reproduce.

The people who choose a celibate lifestyle ('desire' not to have) suffer in a different way from people that choose to have sex ('desire' to have). But all people (monks too) suffer when it comes to sex, if they have desire.

The only way to have sex and not suffer, is to have no desire to have sex. It sounds like a 'Zen Koan' doesn't it? To end our suffering we need to end our desire, our craving, our thirst. [7quote]


That's what i'm doing.

When a Buddhist does end his/her desire in Nirvana, would there be any reason to have sex simply for pleasure??? [7quote9

Nope.The pleasure of the flesh is nothing compared to the ethernal bliss of Nirvana.

you still have a "desire" to not have sex, hah![7quote]


i can't erradicate all desires in one year!