Fall in Love in Dreams

[roni]

yes, absolutely! that happened many times.

But the last time I fell in love, the love of my life, I didn't dream it - I had a kind of a revelation. I was in London at the time, in a record store. I had a third eye vision of the person I fell in love with, and a feeling of enlightenment.

At that time there was no chance for the two of us to be together, absolutely impossible on this plane.

But we are together.

[Kazbadan]

Nice story! I wish to have the same luck, with or without dream, to have a nice girlfriend, someone that you love and that loves you it is great.

Speaking about dreams, i found this site that it seems good:

http://www.dreams.ca/

It teaches how to remember dreams, how to have lucid dreams, and how to use them for your benefit. I am gonna check this site with more attention.

[wisp]

Kazbadan,
Thanks for the link, it looks interesting. I checked out the Dream Recall site, I love the snoozing sound there. []

[Lickerish]

I'll never forget that time years ago of one time when I dreamt of Mr. Spock from Star Trek.
It was so classically romantic with the both of us running across a grassy field with tall white flowers in it with huge happy smiles on our faces.
We ran joyfully into each others arms and Spock looked more happy than I'd ever seen him which is saying alot for an emotionless Vulcan.
We pressed cheeks together( no kissing however it was strictly innocent in nature) and hugged each other ever so tightly.
I don't remember what he said but he confessed his many years of undying love to me right there and then.
But then I pushed him away and felt disgusted.
It was kind of like having a strictly platonic friend from early childhood suddenly act in a provocative manner that you never thought of like that before.
But then when I looked back at the dream I realized it was really a revelation of how I now thought of him that I was of a more mature age.
Any further romantic dreams or thoughts of him I then afterwards welcomed with open arms.

[Kazbadan]

Interesting dream, altought i dont consider Spock a romantic or beautiful guy (neither myself!)![]

Even being rare, the dreams about love (related to someone that i already love, or not) are very beautiful, with a kind of magic that i never say in my awaken life. IT is a very sweet and warm sensation. I feel my sould filled with love and something very good.

Maybe i have this like a way for compensation for my lack of love in my life. It is saif by doctors that depressive people have very colorfould and very happy dreams. Same for me...sometimes.

[Lynfer]

I understand what you all mean. I have had dreams about certain persons I am attracted to and woke to find my attraction having grown a considerable size.

[Lickerish]

Hey Mr. Spock is like totally sexy and I just simply love his pointed ears!
Their like pointy Kitty Kat and its makes one just want to rub those big ole' thingies!
Last night I had this weird sex type dream of Mr Rourke from Fantasy Island./
He was standing with little Tatoo next to him looking on and both had on those white suits.
At least until oops!,- Mr Rourke took his off and stood like totally nude in front of me!
I was lying in bed and he asked me if he could possibly in anyway help to make my wildest, most desirable fantasies come true in that heavy Latin accent of his.
I was completely shocked at this, since I definitely don't think of him in a romantic way at all.
But it was surely a dream for the books at any rate but for the record I said " No thats okay, I'm fine thank you, really!"

[Lickerish]

If you think that a romantic dream with Mr. Spock is weird I've also had a one with Commander Data the mint green skinned andriod from Star Trek TNG! []

[Kazbadan]

So, i see you are a truly Star Trek fanatic!

I would like to have the same kind of dreams with Matrix II characters....that Persefone.....[]

[Lickerish]

Ah, Speaking of the Matrix, how I'd truly love to have a dream with that sexy Neo with the lovely dark brown eyes, not to mention those cool shades!

[shivanova]

The title of this thread reminded me of a dream I had once. I was pretty young maybe in my pre-teens? I can only remember one or two images. I was naked as was a male figure in the dream. We weren't conscious or ashamed of it. Another couple was present and they were naked as well. We were frolicking in a grove of trees and I felt a very deep love connection to my male partner.

I'm not sure what the other couple represented. Our higher selves? Just random dream nonsense?

I believed that I had met my "soulmate" in that dream and it left a long-lasting impression on me. I don't quite buy the concept of a soulmate anymore. I don't think that there is only one idealized partner for everone. I think there are several people you can be highly compatible with in a lifetime.

[astralpwka]

My problem with falling in love with dreams seemed to be a created emotion from the dream that would persist after I awakened. I'd dream being in love with someone I knew, and romantically invovled. I'd wake up feeling the same very strong feelings of affection for the person. I'd have to spend half an hour convincing myself it was a false emotion from a dream premise, especially when I'm married and the other person was a coworker (also married). And, there was nothing between myself and the person of my dreams in reality. This has occured maybe a handful of times.

[Kazbadan]

astralpwka, it´s that kinf of feeling, after awake, that sometimes i have. It´s a little strange isnt it?! Since i have not girlfriend, i dont bother having that feeling...[]


shivanova, i am interested on knwing more about your ideas: do you believe that humans should share free love with everybody? i mean, a man or a woman should make love with whatever they want, without caring about partners or the like?

It seems that you are saying that the ideal to you it´s to have the boyfriends that you want, and what i am asking is : do you womens, all of you, think like that? I am worried a little bit with that because that means that an hypotetical girlfriend that i may have, would like to make sex with other guys, even if she doesnt say it...

I like monogamy because i wouldnt like to see my girlfriend (i dont have one- i am speaking in theory) with other guys. Of course that i would respect her in the same manner...

[Kazbadan]

I used to have dreams with girls that i barely know, or girls that were just friends or collegues. That dreams were rare, and in the that dreams i was catch in love for that girl. I could feel something different with her, something warm and strong at the same time.

When waking up i would feel myself in love with the girl (that was "normal" to me)! At leats for a few days i  would feel something strange, some kind of sweet thing with her.

If the dream was related with someone that i already love, i would feel even more love for her when waking up!

Now that i am adult that doesnt happen any more, maybe because now i will get in love just for someone very, very special (when younger-10-17 years, phsycal atraction was more important-stupid i was.


Did the same thing happened (or happen) to you?