Dream bothering me: opn 2 all attempts at interpretation

[ChristianBelief31]

I dream lucidly about once a month & have for as long as I can remember. Last nite I dreamed the following & it's bothered me all day. Mainly because my dreams have manifested in my life either in completeness or I can look back and remember dreaming of a situation, I might find myself in later in waking life. Now last night dreamed mom was sick & I was heading out to Wendy's to get dinner. I knew the roads were icy and preferred to dress in a brown sweater. Couldn't find my brown pumps so I "settled" forca clog. It was as if I were still living in my childhood home, felt like I was a teen. My dad who has been dead for ten years played an active part. He wasn't hungry but gave me a $21 dollar bill. When I got outside my sisters car had me blocked. It was raggedy & dirty but when I opened the door the dome light shone. Dry brightly. (in waking life she has betrayed me many times, but I love her dearly & we are pretty close despite her repeated betrayals/ she's slept w/ 2 exes, one of which I walked in on) while looking in her car, her ex who happens to be one of my best guy friends asked why'd she block you? As I noticed another guy friend driving by (one who is known to be nosey & sneaky) watching me as he passed by. I moved my sisters car & turned it so that she was parked legally. At which point I end up in my own car with my dad in front and my 8 yr old in back. Dad again has been dead for over ten years, but who interacted quite normally in the dream, had to "show" me how to turn on the traction control- again because it's icy, a rarity where I live. While driving a car cut me off, I slid on the ice as I swerved to avoid. At which point I notice a friend in the car next to me, I commented to my dad that she's now a lesbian.(I misjudged who it was, after turning back I realized my mistake) When I looked back it was a different friend & 2 others smiling happily. All wearing the same sweet shirt, proudly showing off to me the wording, I struggled to see it but did make it out in the dream, it was someones name/ company logo. It was significant in the dream but I can't remember it was purple writing on a grey sweet shirt & purple butterflies. As the light changes they turned left, my lane unbeknownst to me forced me to go straight into the airport. Inside I saw lots of raw meat. I apologized to my dad for getting u's off track and I was very surprised at his reaction to my mistake, he was understanding & comforting. Again we are going to wendys. Which shouldn't be hard to find from home. We end up in a high school. My dad, daughter & I. We walk the halls & end up in the cafeteria, where they're serving my favorite, steak & shrimp with broccoli & baked potatoes. But I didnt want it, I wanted Wendy's. (would never actually happen in waking finally I observe my dad asking the cook for directions when a girl my daughter met shouted out Wendy's is on walnut hill lane & gave u's directions. Again I knew I was dreaming but still woke up kind of panicky and sweating. Please help what stands out is: my mom is she gonna become I'll, my dead dad providing financially (I was laid off three years ago & have not worked since) my sister blocking me and the light that shone bright in her car). Why did I seem so lost? Ph and before leaving the house again I couldn't find several things and settled for wearing something else.please help

[CFTraveler]

Hi, CB- Even though the dream is  rich with symbolism,  I'll keep it general- I see you feeling overwhelmed by your responsibilities- you seem to be in charge of everyone else (or feel you are or should be) and believe that you 'inherited' the dominant role from your father- which is why he's directing the action from the background.  This is almost more than you can take and wish you could have it easier.
I don't know if it's prophetic (or a 'what if' scenario), but I get the impression you feel like you are more in charge than your mother is, and this is represented by her illness, and your comments about your sister.
There's more, but I'll leave it at that.

[ChristianBelief31]

Please tell me all that you can, on this one. It's bugging me. My sis & I have different dads. & my dad wasn't a good provider & he was not the caring, compassionate person in character that he was in the dream. My true thought is that he is trying to make up for & is attempting to communicate through my dream that he is w/ me & helping me find my way. & that my detours were not bad & the school was symbolic of all my mistakes being learning experiences. Think maybe my will for what I set out for even above my usual favorite is his way of saying continue pursuit of my dreams. Don't know if the slippery road & being lost are his way of telling me I'm on the wrong path or that Im ok but need to seek direction