lucid dreams - And my memory

[Voyager]

well, I didn't know till yesterday what did "lucid dream" mean.
I often had lucid dream in the past. I always do that
It happens before I fall asleep.
but it is very short, maybe 20 seconds maximum.
Because I get scared, as soon as I get scared, I wake up.
But there is nothing to get scared.

Question:
is it possible to go into someone elses dream, than giving him messages?
or scare him?
(I did it, when I was 3 or younger, do not laugh at me
I can remember anything since my birth without a gap, even my dreams I don't forget)
But I don't know any longer, how I did it. (I have forgotten the technique)

Don't tell me, if I remember everything then how I forget the method.
well, If you give me a phone number, surely after some days I will have forgot the number,
but I never forget the evident in itself.

But even after 30 years I remember all people voices again, who I knew before for few months, no matter if I met them or not within the 30 year.
People voices never changes, the same like fingerprint (but in the old age it does change, but there
is still some similarity to the youth or middle age)

Another proof(for me) for my good memory is: (maybe that will sound very queer for you)
when I came 1980 the first time to Germany, you must understand, I didn't know even one word German.
But today I almost talk and understand German perfectly.

That time in school I didn't understand the teacher, I didn't know what the other students talked about me in class. But every word what they told, I have saved in my memory, absolutely unconsciously.
and Today I understand them all, each word. Because that day I was not able to understand German,
but today I am.

I do not know, what should I do with that memory, but I think there must be a reason, why
I can remember evrything almost perfect ?
and I do not know about my lucid dreams, for what they are good to use?

In my childhood, not far outside the village in the wilderness, from time to time, I sat myself on the ground, and thought "Do never forget this place, this time, this moment"
But why?
Did I do some mental stops, for time travelling, maybe with astral body?

[Astralzombie]

That time in school I didn't understand the teacher, I didn't know what the other students talked about me in class. But every word what they told, I have saved in my memory, absolutely unconsciously.
and Today I understand them all, each word. Because that day I was not able to understand German,
but today I am.

That's friggin awesome. I can't imagine hearing a conversation in a foreign language, then later learn it and recall the conversation.

I have no idea what you are supposed to do with your gift but it is amazing.

[roman67]

Very interesting thread Voyager. Yes, you can go into someone else dream. It is amazing that you are able to remember everything since from your birth. Your memory is very sharp.

[Fairywindblues]

I can't remember everything since birth but I do remember my own birth (I've spoken of it on here, as well) and I remember things as early from 1991. I was born in 1990. I remember many conversations and situations back from when I was 1-3 years old. I guess we are just better with accessing our stored memories. In theory, we are super machines - each and every one of us. Some people are just 'gifted', so to say. You got blessed with a good memory. It may be a karmic reward or an ability you've learned over the course of lifetimes.

Also, as for the lucid dream part... I've phased before for roughly 1 minute before, too. Don't get scared. I know why most people get scared. It isn't just all about fearing bad entities; people get scared because NPR feels so bizarre, at first. For me, it just felt bizarrely weird and 'real'. I remember wondering if it was air that I was breathing. *recalling a scene from the Matrix movie*

I once closed my eyes to rest them for a second and found myself standing in my driveway, with full clarity, and a 360* view. I walked around for a bit, spun around, and I ended up getting overly excited and did nothing interesting but walk around, and exclaim how excited I was.  I woke up to find hardly any time went by since I first closed my eyes.

As for the going into someone's dream part... yes and maybe.

Think of your dream and other people's dreams as being realms with a thin wall of glass between them. Influencing something doesn't mean taking away the fact that it's also being influenced by itself, as well. My boyfriend and I dream about each other A LOT. Do we ever wake up and have 100% similar experiences to each other in the dream world? No, but sometimes, eerily enough, certain aspects will match up but our own influences are what made the dream its own. In other words, I've definitely felt certain people tap into my dreams, before, and leave an essence, but I've never had a 100% scenario match up with someone except for twice, and both times were with my mother. My mother and I are spooky and will literally visit each other in the dream world all the time, and twice, we remembered the dreams the next morning and both recalled the same stories.

[ChopstickFox]

I think it all gets stored in there, but some are better at accessing it than others.

For instance, my dreams in Chinese, I recognize that the language is being spoken and that the words being said are actual words in the correct syntax and everything, but I only understand what I know. If that makes any sense. I think the language is in my brain and is not limited to my small vocabulary. Kind of a neat concept.

Now I wouldn't be able to imagine later when I know Chinese to be able to recall what was said.

That sounds like wow.

[Voyager]

Well,
to remember everything has its negative side:
I remember when I was 10, I stole some money from a store.
Today I am very sorry about that, I really regret it.
Sometimes I tell myself "That time, you were a child, so nobody can make you responsible for that."
I have looked for the owner of the shop, to give his money back (20 times more than I stole, including interest) But I couldn't find him.

But a positive side was, I found out almost the whole truth in my life:
I found out that most of my friends (I shouldn't call them friends, if you have such friends you do not need
enemies) are liar, (to be a liar may be least harmful state, in contrast what they have done (I prefer not to mention it here.)
I am not a fool, who only believes in his memory, I told myself "You have to prove the whole story from each of them, otherwise you are a liar, the worst liar who lies to oneself."
And I have proven it, I waited for the proper moment for each of them,
and when the moment came,
I just told each of them to their face what they have done in the past.
It is an another story, how I knew what they have done (it is mixed with my memory and lucid dream)
As a result, no one of them could answer me back, they just stared at me, not having a
word to defend themself. If you don't or cannot defend yourself (although you are able to do it)
then you are accepting everything as it said. And those were very bad accusations from me.
Since that no one of them talked to me 1 word, they always avoid me when they see me.
That was anyway my wish, they should avoid me their whole life.

I heard from other people, they talked about me "How was I able to know that?"
without mentioning what they have done.
(They anyway would never believe, how I found the truth)

I have proven the story to myself, and to them
and Today my trouble is:
I cannot prove it to the law, never ever maybe I won't be able to do it.
There is just me, who can make a statement, nobody else, although many other people know the truth
as well, but they are not courage enough, and many of them would loose their face, because they are involved in that crime. They have to hide their face, maybe lifelong.

[Fairywindblues]

Karma eats me up inside because of my memory, sometimes. I remember doing many bad or wrong things. In full clarity, no less. It's hard to remember some things. It's also hard remembering how others have hurt you, in such clarity. It's easy to let things eat you up if you can't forget some things. People will always doubt how you know what you know, or remember what you remember, but at least you remember it. And the great thing about that is that you'll always remember the good and beautiful things about life.  Yes, along with the bad, but you need to just learn how to shut some emotional faucets off. The memory will be there. The trick is, if it's bad, you need to shut off the emotional connection to it. Don't feed it.

[Lionheart]

Karma eats me up inside because of my memory, sometimes. I remember doing many bad or wrong things. In full clarity, no less. It's hard to remember some things. It's also hard remembering how others have hurt you, in such clarity. It's easy to let things eat you up if you can't forget some things. People will always doubt how you know what you know, or remember what you remember, but at least you remember it. And the great thing about that is that you'll always remember the good and beautiful things about life.  Yes, along with the bad, but you need to just learn how to shut some emotional faucets off. The memory will be there. The trick is, if it's bad, you need to shut off the emotional connection to it. Don't feed it.

Actually the truth is this is all resurfacing because you are READY to learn forgiveness.

You can't turn back what is already done, but you can forgive your past failings.

Forgiveness is the single most important act in spiritual development.

I constantly have Dreams which I become Lucid in where I am confronting a bully from my youth.

They keep coming back even though I have tried to forgive them, actually I thought I did, but because they keep showing up I think I am being taught that Forgiveness is more than just a word.

Here is a great description of True Forgiveness: http://www.dailytidings.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20110625/NEWS/106250306

[Fairywindblues]

-Lionheart

I have considered this, yet. I know I cannot change or undo anything and I just reached a point where I became tired of pointing a finger at myself. What was there to gain? I screwed up so many times. But so what? So what? And so, I asked myself this simple question, and realized that I was making it a bigger deal than it had to be. I so long for true forgiveness. I so long to just be able to say "Yes, I've made a huge mess of a part of my life. But that's okay, because it will teach me."

I think I'm close to getting there. It's a good feeling when you're getting close.

-Voyager

I just re-read your post and wanted to comment on something.

When I was in grade four, I was in class one day, and I was staring at a book titled 'Nobody Listens To Andrew' and I thought "Remember this moment years down the line. Remember this moment in time, you were in grade four, staring at this book."

And I always have remembered that moment.

Maybe there are certain moments we just aren't meant to forget. Something may make them special. Maybe it's our job to figure out what makes a moment truly special at its core.

Also, I too am able to tell who certain people are through voices. You just have a really special gift with your memory. These memories are likely stored, in a certain way, and there's a way to access them. You can access them. Hoorah.

[ChopstickFox]

Sometimes my poor memory is a blessing.

I remember what's important, but little things just go with the wind... Most of the time it works out just great.

But it would certainly have helped today... Seriously? All three times I've been to China, I forget how the visa bureau works? I wasted the WHOLE day there... fruitless... Gahhhhh! *ends mini rant*