My Fathers Spirit!

[paul72]

When I was 17 my father died of thrombosis. A few days after the funeral I was studying for an exam on my bed. I looked up and my father was there looking at me. I think I knew it was a dream as I was startled rather than scared. We communicated telepathically as there was no sound and when my father spoke his lips moved. I couldnt hear but knew what he was saying. I wont go into what we said as its personal however something always bothered me. My last question to him was 'are you ok?' Meaning ok in the spirit world. His response was 'I wish!" And the dream\experience ended.
This has disturbed me greatly. I was raised Catholic but I definately do not believe in Hell, vengeful gods, pergutory and the like. In fact by the time my father died I had completely turned my back on any relegion.
Would be nice though to have someones impartial take on this. Im in two minds. One is that there was no interaction between my father and me and it was my psyche. And the other is that I did have a message from my father however it was based on his belief system not mine.
Thoughts anyone? And thanks.

[Bluefirephoenix]

it sounds like mixed message. the transmission of the message was not completely received by you. Clearing the channel can be tricky.. my experience is prayer snd focus on the Father helps clear things up. you may be able to go back and try again. the beliefs overlay your communication you need to be focused and still when communicating.

[paul72]

Oh! Didn't think of it in terms of the clarity of the message or the channel being clear. That kind of helps thankyou Bluefirephoenix.

[Bluefirephoenix]

my experience praying helps clear the channel  God is not vengful How would a perfect father treat his children. I think there are a few misunderstandings over the centuries. Hes safe to talk to and helpful in such matters. Care always needs to be taken with psychic work. Thats how the misunderstandings happened in the first place. messages get mixed with thoughts ,fears ,desires, beliefs ect

[soarin12]

When I projected to see my deceased father, after we hugged and said 'I love you' in an emotional reunion, we began to talk but right in the middle of his third sentence, the projection ended and the communication got cut off.  That's happened to me many times in other projections too.  You only have so much time, and when your time is up it's up.  If you're in the middle of talking to someone the rest of the communication will be lost. Seems like yours just got interrupted in an unfortunate place which caused confusion.  I agree with BFP that prayer helps.  Connect with God/Source who is pure love.  Ask a question and have faith it will be answered.  Keep your eyes (and heart ) wide open and you will see the answer.

 

[Bluefirephoenix]

Beautifully said soarin

[paul72]

Thank you both. Comforting food for thought. I will start asking for answers and see what comes my way.