Premonition Dream - Turned Reality

[kozzi]

Well first, you haven't told us your dream.  Secondly, don't you think it's pretty obvious that you'd feel some kind of guilt for dating someone while trying to seperate from your husband?  

While not knowing the content of your dream (because you've not said), I think it's obvious that anyone in your position would feel some guilt.  It's not wrong to go on with your life, but you must understand the consequences for your children.  Children don't understand why we sometimes lose love for someone, especially when that someone is their father.  

Was it a premonition?  Well, it'd have to be pretty damn specific to be a premonition.  If the details of your dream only suggested that your son has some problem with your new boyfriend, then that is only your own guilt.  So, no.  You did not have a premonitory dream.  You just feel guilty.  Sorry to be so honest, but that's just the way it is.  Maybe you'll get lucky though, and some other member of this forum will play to some fantasy you might have about ESP and you being special, but, in my opinion, that's just not the case.  I know you probably hate my opinion.  Sorry, but you're just experiencing the wonderful honesty of the so-called "unconcious" mind at work.

Kozzi

[Lighthouse]

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One night I dreamt that I had lost the new man's phone number, it had completely disappeared from my mobile (I know that sounds kinda daft!!) but I over-reacted in the dream and was absolutely devastated...I thought I would never get the phone number back, and was trying to call his friend who wasn't answering me etc etc I was in a real panic and can still remember the feeling in my dream. Now in reality, I know that I wouldnt panic so much considering I work with the guy and all I have to do if that happens is actually ask him at work for the number again!

This was the dream described.

Kerri

[Mandalay]

Thank you Kerri:-)

And for the record, no I wasn't feeling guilty, my children hadn't even met this new person as it was not a "serious" relationship. Not wanting to go too specifically into the details of my life I had suffered 15 years of emotional abuse from my husband and finally learned to stand up for myself and for my children and get the hell out. I was actually feeling very proud of myself and wanting to provide a new life for me and my children, so there was no guilt in involved (just relief from getting away from a controlling husband!).

I'm not looking for someone to pat me on the back and say "you're special" as I know EVERYONE has dreams that reflect their lives in the near future at some point, we can all do it. I just was interested in finding out more and where they come from etc!

I'm not offended by your comments at all, and thank you for taking the time to reply. Your view on the "unconcious mind" also does make a lot of sense as well, it just seemed strange to me that my dream was in connection with my mobile phone and losing the number and then the very next day it happened. I don't usually remember dreams like it were a movie I watched, it is usually the feelings and emotions that bring the thoughts back into my mind and can never remember "seeing" the dream. So it was those feelings and emotions although not quite so bad that affected me the next day.

[Mandalay]

A few months ago I had a dream which I can only describe as a kind of "warning" dream to me. A little background knowledge of my life at the time first though before I get onto the dream:- I was in the middle of seperating from my husband and had been on my own in my flat for about four months. I had started seeing someone else.  My children stayed with me on some nights whilst I looked for a bigger place to live in.

I was having real jealousy problems with my husband and he knew I was seeing someone else. One night I dreamt that I had lost the new man's phone number, it had completely disappeared from my mobile (I know that sounds kinda daft!!) but I over-reacted in the dream and was absolutely devastated...I thought I would never get the phone number back, and was trying to call his friend who wasn't answering me etc etc I was in a real panic and can still remember the feeling in my dream. Now in reality, I know that I wouldnt panic so much considering I work with the guy and all I have to do if that happens is actually ask him at work for the number again!

Anyway the next morning - wide a wake, vaguely still having memory of the dream but putting it to the back of my mind. I was standing in the kitchen and my kids were playing in the front room. My son came in and started acting funny and sneaky then left.. a few moments later I walk into the front room and see my son hiding under the computer desk with my mobile phone in his hand, talking to daddy saying "yes she is still seeing that man and he has called her and she has texts from him too" ... obviously very angry I grabbed the phone back and blasted my ex to pieces for using our son as a "spy". I was pretty angry with my son too and now I regret that.

I also realised that my son had deleted my boyfriends number from the phone. Easy to retrieve I just got the number back from one of the text messages he had sent.

But, still later that day this event gave me the shivers as I tied it in with the dream I had the night before. It just seemed tooooo coincidental to brush off.

Obviously it was some kind of premonition, but what sort..was it spirit guides or angels or something around me trying to warn me of this. If so, why? What could I have done to stop this. It actually caused huge problems for me and the ex after this and I later apologised to my son, he learned his lesson though and never did it again!