Girl in dream

[anxhelino1234]

I had this dream a while ago, but it got me curious and i remember it perfectly well.

There is this one girl, (what she looks like is irrelevant) she's been in two of my dreams which i remember perfectly clearly, the first dream which was a few years ago, i just had a mere glimpse of her, she looked about 6 or 7 years old, and was just looking at me with a neutral expression.

Then a few months ago, i had a dream where she was just standing there looking down at me, she seemed like she was in her 20s and i was roughly 10 years old (im currently 16), with a sudden urge, i hugged her and a warm feeling rushed through my body and memories of the past came rushing into my head, when i let go of her and stepped back, the memories stopped and thats the first time she looked down at me and smiled, which was precisely when i woke up.

Ive never met this girl before, or even seen her in real life, yet i cant get her face out of my head.
Does anyone know why this happened or what it means, because im confused.

[Lucid Pirate]

If you see her again, don't let your emotions get to you. Instead of hugging her, ask her straight-forward what she wants, even if you have to be abruptly rude to find out.

DO NOT worry about offending her. It's your dream. If she acts offended by anything you say or do, don't play along. It's just the dream's way of trying to get itself back on track. If you feel uncomfortable about offending the dream character, after you find out what she wants, just say something like "You know I was joking right? You know I would never really be rude to you!" Although in the real world this would never work, dreams have a way of trying to fix themselves if they get derailed.

If you apologize or make a joke about how you got the information from her, she will play along and everything will be fine between you for the rest of the dream. This is taken from experience. One time in a dream I was a torturer for the US military and I had to hurt someone to get information from them. After I had to do some pretty violent things that I will not describe, I became lucid after realizing that I would never do these things in real life. I felt so bad about doing this to the person that I asked them if they would forgive me, and he said "Well of course! You're my friend! I know that you had to do that to get the information from me! You were just doing your job." Then after that I took him to lunch and we were laughing and having a good time. Long story short, as long as you tell them something with the belief that they will believe it, then they will believe it.

As for your girl... She may be:

1) A subconscious guide in your dream.

2) A suppressed emotion/memory/feeling.

3) A spiritual guide.

There is this one girl (what she looks like is irrelevant)

Ive never met this girl before, or even seen her in real life, yet i cant get her face out of my head.

Her appearance actually is very relevant. Try to describe her the best you can. If you'd rather have more privacy/confidentiality (if you feel her appearance is inappropriate), feel free to PM me and I'll try to help you figure this out.

Also, a few personal questions:

1) Have any of your siblings/parents/friends/loved ones died in your childhood/past?

2) What memories were shown to you when you hugged her? (Be specific)

3) What exact emotions did you feel in the dream as you:
     A) Saw her
     B) Hugged her
     c) Received the memories
     D) Looked up at her after letting go

4) Have you ever experienced a traumatic incident regarding a child?

5) Were you sexually aroused by this girl at any point in the dream?

Please be as specific as you possibly can in answering these questions. Again, feel free to PM me if you'd rather not answer them in public.

[Ihopeso]

You know What I say GET SOME! If you think she's beautiful then go and get her... Be sure to treat her to a nice dinner first, you know, that way she wont think that all you're after is scrambling her eggs up nice and warm. Who knows you might even fall in love with her... Astral LOVE is so much better then you can even imagine.

[Lucid Pirate]

You know What I say GET SOME! If you think she's beautiful then go and get her... Be sure to treat her to a nice dinner first, you know, that way she wont think that all you're after is scrambling her eggs up nice and warm. Who knows you might even fall in love with her... Astral LOVE is so much better then you can even imagine.

I would highly advise against that. He's trying to figure out what she is. If he believes that there is special about this dream character, "getting some" may damage the relationship with her, or throw her purpose for reoccurring off track.

[Ihopeso]

Well in the words of Joseph... "Don't you know that a man like me can predict the future".  Where is my Silver Cup? Ha Could stuff.

[Lionheart]

Well in the words of Joseph... "Don't you know that a man like me can predict the future".  Where is my Silver Cup? Ha Could stuff.

How is this even pertinent to this conversation?