Unresolved relationship, missing dream signs

[Micael]

For a while I keep having the same person in my dreams. This is a girl I have some unresolved feelings with but she's no longer part of my life for quite a few months, we just parted ways in a manner too far from ideal for my liking, it was also my fault. Now that that's out of the way because of this circunstance some time ago I identified her as one of my dream signs but as it happens I haven't been as focused as I would like in my dream recall, meditation and other pratices. So much so that out of the many dreams that she was in and also some other dream signs I identified I've never really reality checked or seen through them. I'm just a little bit worried that she won't go away from my daily dreams because I can separate things but still the dreams carry powerful emotions with them that I wouldn't necessarly want in my head anymore, it's been long enough. Maybe consciousness is just using her to nudge my awareness, because she's a dream sign I identified and she's there every other night and still I haven't managed to get lucidity this way a single time. Any opinions?

[Szaxx]

Use her as a dream token.
Each day you recall her and imagine being wide awake with full awareness staying in the same environment you see her in.
This will program the subconcious to generate full awareness in token recognition without waking you.

[Micael]

Use her as a dream token.
Each day you recall her and imagine being wide awake with full awareness staying in the same environment you see her in.
This will program the subconcious to generate full awareness in token recognition without waking you.

Wow I actually never thought about doing that... I didn't know this technique. Thanks, I'll try it with her and also my other dream signs as they are pretty evident and recurring.