Ejaculation and Energy Loss

[BlackBox]

quote: I'd like to give you a mystical-sounding meditation for this but I don't really have one. I used brute force; repetition and will power.

I also wanted to mention that the former method is what I usually dread. I'm one of those guys who doesn't really enjoy the 'mystical-sounding meditations' that much. Mostly because I think I need to work-out my mind more so that it can actually project vivid visualizations. Right now in my life, the brute-force methods via 'repitition and will power' are what bring results.

Just wanted to note that.

Thanks again.

[shadowdancer]

Namaste,
    I was just reading the kundalini topic and I found the direction quite interesting.  First, I wonder what age Moonbeam is...  The reason for my pondering is that is takes quite some time longer that 30 minutes for my energy to rebalance itself after an actual ejaculation.  At least 12 hours.  Please don't make any assumptions just yet.  I do believe that sexual activity can be quite healthy.  I guess for me to go any further, I do need to state that I feel that the male of the human species has quite a limited amount of sexual essence as oppossed to the female of the species.  Any ejaculation is a loss of energy.  Which would be the subject of my topic.  For me, I don't feel so much that I should lose energy if I ejaculate, nor do I feel it neccessary for me to atone for aeons of untold sin and become celibate.  Alas, I am striving to reconcile on many different levels, the paradoxical nature of what I perceive as my reality.  On one of these levels is the truth that Mr.Bruce speaks.  That is, if you believe that you need, should, supposed to(or many other societally or culturally placed taboo pressure terms and ideas)lose energy when you lose semen; then, and only then, will it bo so.  Another level of truth of this aspect of reality is that an individual human; existing to some extant, within a shared, or nominal reality will lose energy stores from his energy body when there is ejaculation because there are psycho-physiological "parameters" that exists to govern such action.  I intuitively feel that the truth is somewhere in between.  Meaning that if you ejaculate, there is a definite loss of biophysical energy stores, period.  With that said, the YCYOR(you create your own reality)model can tell us that, "Yes, there will be some energy dispersion(mayber a more accurate word than loss?); but it can be lessened by your mindset and attitude toward that energy flucuation.  What does anyone else think?  Namaste, shadowdancer

[michielmentink]

Having read the book "the multi-orgastic man", by mantak chia and douglas abrams, I'm experimenting with letting the energy flow through mine and my lover's body.

For instance, I imagine pushing my energy through the mouth of my lover and imagine it flowing out of her vagina into my groin, when we're having sex.

Sure enough, this creates some wonderful feelings, sudden energy bursts and blockades being removed (I can hear her gasping sometimes too, even though she doesn't know what I'm doing.)

However, sometimes, I feel a bit drained, while she tells me she feels super energetic and a bit odd.

My question is as follows:

What are the consequences/effects of doing this?
Is there a mixing of energy taking place (after the process, I'd have some of her energy and she'd have some of mine.

Is there any risk of her getting pregnant, even when we use the pil and condoms? (I'm a young guy, and our relationship is not very serious, so that's a big MAYOR concern for me   )

Are there any things I could try? It feels SO good and sometimes, I can feel my energy blockades flowing again!

Well guys, I hope you can give me some insights, I haven't found many useful books on this subject.

greets,

Michael