is this it?

[jilola]

Do both if you have a reason to see a therapist.
Read this site if not.

Definitely read this site but read it with your thinking switched on.

2cents & L&L
Jouni

[feelingmad]

I have recently started sharing strange experiences with another person. I have not been (until now) the sort of person to be open to this sort of thing, but when I had this experience, I have had to reassess many views of life....
I have a new lover, and we both say that we have never been with anyone like this before. Then once when we were out together, we noticed that we had not said anything for an hour, but had still been communicating. I thought this was a lovely romantic notion. Then one night I felt something in my chest which was the same feeling as I got when were together. I told her about it and she had had the same experience at the same time. We starting trying to do this deliberately and we are able (more than half the time, but not every time) to know to within a minute when the other one is "calling". We have also had an experience which felt like a dream to me, where I could see her in her bed as if I was flying above her. At the same time she had a dream of me as a bird. I was able to tell her things about her room I could not have known unless I had been there that night.
I am totally new to all this. Will someone please tell me if I should be reading more of this website, or seeing more of my therapist?
Thanks in advance.