There's a thread on this question just on this page, look down :) "Ejaculation and energy loss". All your questions will be answered there i guess.
I wondered about the same question for almost 20 Yrs and wasted lot of energy(Mostly almost daily, through safe masterbation ) for the sake of pleasures/escape from reality and Lately realized that " Main cause of my mental/emotional /learning problems are related to lack of sufficient energy,( that mainly comes through sextual energy - read "In search of Miraculous" by P.D. Opsensky ) to cope with them ". It is important to have sextual energy for any serious spiritual work.
read the works of Carlos Castanaeda ( on shamanism) or Gurdjieff's work on the importance of the sextual energy for any serious spritual work. All the sextual energy goes to 4th density, which is the one of the food of the 4th density service to self(STS) beings, who are our real controllers. That is why sex is promoted so intensily under billions of disguises.
when I tried to stop this practice, I went through a phase of horror for almost 1 Yr. When I tried to stop the practice, I realized that I am under sextual attack in the dream. Some Dream scene comes and I was force to lose the energy. It is like rape. Then I realized The mental pictures that I used to masterbate are not mine and that were induced on me. So practice caution in using this energy. Sex energy is extracted from us through so many ways and we think that we are enjoying that.
Many of the spiritual texts/channeling information says that " sex between truly loving people with absolute lack of -ve motivation at mental/emotional gives the high level spiritual states ". how Many couples on this planet qualify for this requirement?.
[}:)][:P]What does Ejaculation hav to do anything wit losin energy...... What if i had a dream and it did it like auto syle ya know ... cushi cushi i wanna know wats up with dat... i must hav no energy left!!!![xx(]