Loving sick spirited people

[Cameron_]

Hi Liz

I am not sure that I understand what you are asking in your post. Are you wanting to learn to love people that have harmed you? Or people who hold grudges? Or are you wanting to figure out how to draw more positive people into your life?

Cameron

[liz mccal]

Hello,
Well I guess people who have harmed me. People who are sick and harm anyone really. People who are sick and stuck in a sato-masachistic way of life hurt others, hurt myself and back to hurting others.  
The question could be stated.............
How do we forgive? period. How do you do what Jesus said and is in my oppinion correct "Love your enemys"
Yes how to Forgive?
Thanks
Liz[:I]

[beavis]

its easy to forgive after you get revenge [}:)]

But seriously, its easier to forgive if you know why somebody did the bad thing. Would you get mad at a dog for eating your steak you left on a chair? I wouldnt, not because I left it where he could reach it, but because I know exactly why he did it, because he's a dog and his instinct tells him to eat when he sees food.

[liz mccal]

I have to heal from an attack I've had. Mainly novices that have no idea of what they have done.
I know the only way I am going to heal is to love them. I did for a long time and it was good. Whene I had forgiven these people I did heal and amazing things happened.  I did start my grudge holding again and more neg's and evil people came out of the wood work.
Does anyone know how to love people not neg's that are realy sick. People who need love more than me holding a grudge. It sounds easy but in reality whene someone has been wronged it is harder than it sounds.
Thank you,
Liz