Hi. I've noticed that after about 3 years of not seeing someone, I still feel the exact same way about this person than when I left her. The feeling I had for her was never mutual, only felt by me. I wouldn't go as far to say 'love', becase I'm to young to experience love properly (I'm 15), but if I didn't know better that's what I would definetely call it. What worries me is that I still feel the excact same way, and still think about her and the times we spent together. I even check her online journal from time to time, always leaving enraged with any news of her seeing someone else etc. Also since then, I haven't had any female friends, or real friends and these past 8 months have been my abosolute all time low. I know this isn't healthy. I was wondering how it is possible for one to be so attatched to another, and not receive anything in return. How can I move on with this?
Not think about it at all?
First, get a F*cking grip. Read this topic http://www.astralpulse.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=11059 and pay special attention to a cool guy by the name of Hans Solo. You need help my friend. You scream wuss in the women department. This book will help you soooo much www.doubleyourdating.com !!!!
The best thing you can do is GFTOW. Once you understand what this acronym means you will no longer have these feelings and you will be on the path, and a part of the "community".
Use the force, feel the flow,
Han Solo
Hans Solo is right. I experienced the same thing when I was your age. It's hormonal. You grow out of it (mostly).
If the feeling isn't mutual, she's not worth your effort to keep her on a pedestal. Don't ever see her as better than you. You'll be far better off seeing to your own development, envision who you want to be, have the confidence in yourself that if she isn't interested in you, that's her loss. Move on. She isn't worth thinking about, and definitely not worth obsessing over.
What does GFTOW mean? I want to be part of the community ... :wink: