Healing emotions...

[Silent Shadow]

Ok.. my friend... he is filled with anger and hatred.... and he and I are about to begin practicing different types of like... telepathy and manipulating energy... and before I allow these sessions to begin.. I want to first make him let go of anger and hatred that is in him...

... Is there any way of a healing method to heal his emotions of anger and hatred? Because, if it goes on for any longer, it'll kill him. I know this is possible... so is there any way to help him?

Any specific meditations or... healing techniques?

Any info is welcome... thank you for your time.

~Alex

[Tom]

Anger has a tendency to destabilize the energy. I have had a chance to watch this up close under ideal circumstances of lighting and background. The aura of a very angry person, I mean. My mood was also particularly ideal that day. The anger just happened to be directed at me, and it felt like this guy was just offering himself to take his energy. He all but asked me out loud to drain him. It was so interesting to watch that I just looked at him with an odd expression on my face that he could not interpret. By not playing along and filling my role in the interaction, I was making it difficult for him to continue in his role.

That was just an observation.

A technique I was given is to shape a dart of energy and to fill it with strong positive thoughts and emotions. When you have it ready, use your intent to establish that it is finished and then bury it in the person you want to affect. Throw it as hard as you can and it will be absorbed. The effect should be to create a gap in the pattern of anger. The rest is still up to the other person, but you have created the possibility that the pattern will not run its course that time. It takes a lot of power and energy to crack the pattern to the point where it cannot be run again, like a badly scratched up CD, but it can be done. Still, a dart here and there from time to time is a good start.

[Ness757]

It is possible to heal emotions.  Just visualize the negative energies in him being destroyed and being replaced with positive energies.

[Tom]

I was just about to start a thread on Jin Shin Jyutsu after picking up a book which had been suggested to me (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0553377841/qid=1117556052/sr=8-2/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i2_xgl14/102-0240456-7234573?v=glance&s=books&n=507846) about it. The thing about it is that it applies well enough to this thread that it makes more sense just to put it here. It works particularly well on anger.

[Ridion]

Negative emotions such as anger and hate can be channeled to help such practices, however if you want to practice with this guy and you have very positive energy, it would be good for him to change.

A technique I use in altering emotions is to empathize what the person feels, this is a relatively easy ability to master if you only use positive emotions and energy. Basically, you want to feel what he feels. What i am able to do is then change that within myself and keep this link up for several minutes, feeding your positive energy down this link and that usually works.

Another thing that may work for you is once you empathize, to figure out the motives if his anger and hate. Once you know those, do a bit of thinking (or meditation) on what flaws he has in his thinking and just question him about the flaws. This may or may not work, depending on the person.

This may take some time and practice to get these techniques, so maybe just try other poster's suggestions first.

-Rob

[Tracerammo]

Anger and Haterd, huh?

Well, the main thing that you have to do to help your friend, first and foremost, is to begin to affrim in YOURSELF, that your friend has no need to be angery and no hateful.  Realize inside this person is a being of pure love and light.  Anger and Hatered do not exist in the Radical Now.  The anger and hate that your friend feels is because of some perception that he is a victim.

Now, apply the law of attraction to that.  The frequency of anger is far, far lower than that of love, right?  So how can he feel love and attract love if he is vibrating at a frequency of hate and anger?  Love isn't even within his 'range' of vibration right now.

If you consider emotions as vibrating (which they are) then they can easily be placed on a gradiation scale (Joy and Love (Source Energy) at the top and Fear, Grief, Depression, Dispair at the bottom).

Your friend seems to be in a Hatred, Revenge, Anger area, correct?

Anger is the current emotion and love is the goal.  What is between love and anger, closer to love, but still in anger's vibrational range?  Discouragement, Blame, or Worry.  These emotions are still 'negitive', but relative to the hate and anger are improvements.  Once these emotions are achieved, he can progress to feelings of Disappointment, or "Overwhelmment" or Frustration/Impatients.  Again, not 'good' emotions, but better than blame and worry.

From there your friend can work up the scale:

Joy/Love
Passion
Happiness/Enthusiasm
Positive Expectation/Belief
Optimisim
Hopefulness
Contentment
Boredom
Pessimism
Frustration

From frustration to Joy and Love.

Hope that helps him out.

With love and hope,
Tracy

[OrionsDream]

I think some people are simply beyond a person's help. Not saying your friend is. Just if ur friend is very closed minded, i say less of a chance.

Try being really honest with your friend, like all the time about everything. And encourage ur friend to be honest to you.

just suggestions hope it works out!

[Wizard of Light]

Greetings Silent Shadow,

First off, I want to say that I think it is wonderful you have so much concern for your friend.  I hope they know how good of a friend they have in you!

Secondly, I want to let you know that most of the work needs to be done by your friend, not you.  You can help give them the push in the right direction, but the real work is up to them.

Emotions are a part of the human experience.  They are part of our "aliveness".  Fear, anxiety and anger are simple reactions that get blown out of proportion because we resist the feelings.  We have spent countless years finding ways to suppress our emotions and feelings.  When we suppress our emotions they turn into something worse, something even harder to bear!  E.G. Our anger turns into RAGE or our emotional pain turns into SELF HATE.  

FEELINGS ARE A SIGNAL THAT IS THERE FOR A REASON AND SHOULD NOT BE IGNORED.

Unfortunately many people, through resistance to their emotions, have to experience separation from all that is dear to them, emotional and physical breakdown and terminal illness before they choose to accept the experience.  Resistance is what makes life so painful and complicated.  To resist the experience will cause it to re-present until we have no choice other than to accept it.

A key to this is to remove the judgment.  NOTHING is GOOD or BAD.  Ask yourself what does or doesn't serve me in relation to who I am and where I "want to go".

We must then acknowledge, own and hold our feelings, treating them as a sacred and a PERFECT part of us.  The only way to deal with and stop experiencing a particular emotion is to be totally willing to experience it.  By being willing to experience it, it no longer feels painful.  The lesson has been accepted and never has to be experienced again.