Basically, this is what happened:
I had been secretly dating this girl, we were having a relationship that was by all means impossible. Firstly, no one could know anything, she would be leaving to her city in a couple of days (coming back February 20 to spend 3 days), and it was an overall impossible relationship.
However, there was a connection.
One day I was in the kitchen with her, being silly and playful, when suddenly for a second I had a flash, a Deja Vu -- however it kept on going.
The Deja Vu acknowledged the immediate present, but it kept on going until I saw the next couple of minutes. I also had some "knowledge" of what was going to happen, which went beyond the "vision."
I was going to continue the playful activity (which the specific thing I was doing she doesn't like, I was being irritating really), and then her sister would come in. I'm really short tempered and my girl would say something nasty, I would lose temper and get in an argument.
We would then end everything. I had the "knowledge" that it would never work again, and she would leave in 3 days to her city.
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Then the flash ended. I though "I have to change this", so I stopped the playful activity immediately. Her sister then came in as predicted. My girl took the position she did in the "vision", except that the fight didn't happen.
Then 3 days passed, and she found a way to stay here for 1 more week, and her parents would pick her up later (without knowing of our relationship).
So we kept on going until she left, and will be back again. We basically split it yesterday, and I assume she's pretty confused and depressed. Can't ever tell if it's for the best or not... Weird!
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Basically, a simple change I made changed the future dramatically. Very interesting!
wow that is weird, have u ever had any of these deja vu things before ? or first time ? crazy stuff
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wow that is weird, have u ever had any of these deja vu things before ? or first time ? crazy stuff
There's nothing crazy about deja vu. The future is only a set of probabilities, so changing it is possible, otherwise we would not have free wills.
Maybe you were reading her mind, and separately knew her sister was coming down. Just because she thinks it doesnt mean she would do it.
Yeah changing the future isnt impressive. I could flip a coin to decide something and change the future.
Quote from: beavisMaybe you were reading her mind, and separately knew her sister was coming down. Just because she thinks it doesn't mean she would do it.
Yeah changing the future isn't impressive. I could flip a coin to decide something and change the future.
I think it's quite impressive if you know what is going to happen. Yeah, anything you do would change the future, obviously, but if you know what the possible future is for certain, and change it, it's interesting.
It's interesting that you managed to avoid ending it in her kitchen, yet you just broke up regardless. I wonder if delaying your break-up helped something, or if the deja-vu was just a random thing that warned you but for no particular reason?
I can relate to this, I try to alter what's going to happen every time I get this. Usually I pause for a few minutes to see what happens and try to forward remember the next part. Never had anything as clear as this example though