Can anyone help me?

[Trecoolius]

Suicide seems like the only thing to do.

[Lionheart]

 I hate to say but Suicide is the easy way out. It's much harder to live! You will only be put through circumstances that you can handle in life. It may be hard to believe that, but you were the person that asked for this when you came into this life. Now you have to find out how to live and learn from whatever is giving you these thoughts. There are always answers and you didn't come to this world just to quit!

[blis]

You've got some difficult stuff to overcome in this life.

Bad news time. If you kill yourself, in the afterlife you'll be stuck in the psychological rut you are now. Then evetually you'll have to come back here and do it all again and again until you finally man up and deal with whatever you're running away from.

I've been where you are. Several times. Sometimes you need to stop looking for a way out and accept the situation you're in. Work through it.

I'll reccomend a book. The Pleiadian Workbook by Amorah Quan Yin. The Pleiadians will help you work through your issues. Even if that sounds a bit silly to you, give it a try. It's worth a shot if you're about to kill yourself anyway.

[Trecoolius]

Bliss, Lionheart, I appreciate your words, I really do.

It's just sometimes life seems to hate seeing me achieving my goals.

I don't want to win the lottery. I don't wish to be a millionaire. I don't fancy a yatch or a mansion. All I want is a job where I can make a decent living and provide for a family. I am a firm believer that success only comes after effort, then why is it that I send resume after resume just not to be called, even if I'm a highly trained professional?

I'm 32 and I just came out of college a couple of years ago (well, actually it was last january), most of my colleagues have found really nice jobs, yet I'm still living with my parents. I feel I'm wasting my productive years sitting in my computer waiting for a call. A couple of weeks ago I was called and interviewed, my potential boss told me he really liked me and that I showed great potential, and he gave the order to hire me. Then, last night, a friend in the company told me that HR would not do any hiring for the rest of the year. Seriously, WTF?

You wanna know why I came to this forum? I came here so I can learn AP to find my spiritual guide and tell him "DUDE, WTF, HELP ME OUT HERE, wtf's so wrong with me that even my most mediocre classmate was able to get a nice paying job while I'm still taking the bus to deliver resumes?". However, I haven't had any luck doing so.

It's been a year and a half and god knows I've been putting a great deal of effort in finding a job. I'd just like to know what is it that keeps me from getting one, since this kind of bad streak is not normal, or so I'm starting to think. Can anyone help me out?

[blis]

I feel for you mate. I'm 30 and I had to move back in with my mum when I got out of jail in july. Cant get a job. Cant get a place of my own. Cant keep living here much longer.

The key to getting what you want is believing it's going to happen. No doubts. Obviously thats easier said than done or I'd have a job, girlfriend and my own place. I suppose I need to address the reasons for my self doubt. Dont know about you.

Your guides can hear you whenever you speak to them. You dont need to project for that. I'm not saying you shouldnt learn to project, it's a cool thing to do, but not many people get to have a face to face with their higher selves when they're new to projecting.

Just try and have faith. Sometimes life gives us what we need instead of what we want. And sometimes it gives us what we want but not in the way we expect. You might meet your soul mate on the bus when you're going to deliver resumés. You might get your absolute perfect job next week that you end up doing for the rest of your life but which would never have happened if you got any old well payed job last year.

Just try and have faith that things happen the way they need to happen and that fate has good things in store for you. Thats what I do.

[Xanth]

Suicide seems like the only thing to do.

You need some real life support.  You should talk to family and friends... and perhaps a professional or something about how you feel about things.

Suffice to say, you come to this physical reality as a fast track to spiritual growth.  You come here to learn and experience.
People who commit suicide think they're "ending things"... but they're not, they're only hurting themselves spiritually and setting themselves back for that lifetime.

You're no less of a person because you can't get a job.  Lots of people are having troubles getting, and keeping jobs these days.  That's no reflection upon you.

Trecoolius, I'd like you to watch a 2 minute video for a second: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOM9LHZhLlA&feature=player_embedded
This is, quite possibly, my most FAVOURITE video I've ever seen.  It's a video of Tom Campbell taken before he gave one of his workshops.  Please really listen to what Tom is saying very closely and try applying the information to your own situation.  It really gave me an entirely different perspective on life. 

[Lionheart]

 Fantastic post Ryan, excellent video! Very encouraging and true. I have had many jobs in my life, I used to travel around the country myself in many situations where I was completely broke, but I always seemed to bounce back. I left home when I was 14 years of age, now I am 47. For some reason every place I went to I found people that were in dire need of assistance, either due to child abuse, divorce, death in the family, depression, suicidal, or possession. I would stay with these people until their situation was under control and then move on to the next town. I could always find work by going down to the local employment center and finding odd jobs for the day. These were not high paying jobs and a lot of the work was grueling, but it payed what I needed to survive. I finally stopped traveling 12 years ago when I met a beautiful lady here in Minnesota. It actually took me a year to unpack my suitcase, as I was always waiting for my next move in life to occur. Once here I started at the bottom again with odd jobs locally until I started to work on my hobbies and passions, making them realities. Now I still travel around the country, but this time with the lady I love, I still meet people in need that I can help here and there. I sell handmade Dragon Sculptures in Renaissance Faires around the country. The intent that is put into the making of this business and every Dragon that we sell is to heal others. What I am saying is you can take this down time that you have to explore other venues. Go down and do casual labor, I know that's not what you went to school for, but we have to do what we have to do in this life. Perhaps this will lead to other experiences and passions. All of this is happening to you for a reason, now it's time that you find out why. Never give in to self-pity. It does nothing constructive for you!

[mcdwg]

Amazing how different situations, realities shape the outlook of an individual.

Let me explain, I'm in the military, 15 years in steady income with my wife but I feel like I'm trapped in a cage sometimes, or most times I should say to the point where I have even considered getting out and not caring about retirement.  Sometimes I wish I could be just an individual with no responsibilities, getting up late, letting my hair grow, not worrying about being in shape and not having to answer to anyone (my boss).  I know there are millions of people without jobs and stressing about what will happen when money runs out, luckily I don't stress about that so i create other situations to stress about.  I guess my point is no matter what situation we're in we will always stress about something unless we change our attitude and ask for a good day and believe with our emotions and feelings that we will have it and believe me it works, one prime example my sister, single mother with an 11 year old, could not find a job and what did she do, she joined the national guard, two years later she is about to come back from Iraq having paid off most of her car and bills, this is an individual who is the typical girly girl not wanting to lift a finger for anything and yet she took the drastic decision to join a relatively dangerous occupation such as the national guard, so I'm not saying to go and join the armed forces but it is an option such as many out there.  I think that if we ask with a deep belief to find answers to our questions we will get those answers in one way or another.

Take care

[JLB]

Allow Undonditional Love into your Experience and Know that You are Experiencing Exactly what You should be Right Now!!. There is no such thing as HELP from another My Friend, There is only Guidance back to YOU and what You Truly ARE!!. So Called Help ONLY Exists WITHIN!!. Quiet the EGO and RELEASE the Emotions that DO NOT serve you WELL and are Not of the Highest and Best for YOU!!