Anyone Help Me?

[Graelwyn]

My bf is trying to learn how to project to me... in the sense that he is trying to send himself to me so I can feel him without his being here physically.

So far, he is able to have me feel what he is doing...but...he is not aware of what is around him, whether I am awake/asleep, what I am doing etc.

He isn't good at understanding very complicated methods and he hasn't been doing this for long...so what is the best way for him to come to me for fully...what can I suggest he does when he tried to project to me ?

I am sorry if this is confusing question, but I am not into all the technical terms for this.

Thanks for any help.

[Graelwyn]

Evidently not. Ah well. Clearly not as many 'experts' as I believed to be here.

[Tom]

It has been less than 24 hours, you know.

http://www.out-of-body.com/techniques/targettechnique.html

The "target technique" sounds perfect for what you are looking for. I misunderstood at first because I was expecting you to be looking for a way to keep people from projecting to your location. That is much more common.

[Graelwyn]

Thanks for that link, Tom.
It looks great to me and have passed it on to my bf.

Kate.

[9981]

Hey,

Depending on your location, try plane, train or bus ticket   . Sorry just a little humour on my part (I know, i know. I'm not funny).

Just curious Graelwyn, do you project too? You mention that you want him to project to you is this so you can feel his presence is you physical reality, or see him in your dreams?

Cheers,

9981

[IequalMC2]

You did say anyone. I hope you dont mind my advice.

I dont know what i'm doing here, I myself project my will daily, i've consciously projected once, of which i shant speak. I've become lucid a few times and once developed my dream recall to reasonably ok.

Once a friend on the up told me I shouldn't astral project, I already sort of knew this. I figure my Dumi's sleep better when i'm not lucid, when i'm just flowing how i shold be.

I would like to give you some advice, the only advice I could give is to tell him to just do it, this seems like silly advice, but its not.

Actually i'll give you a silly example which is actually a truth that happened to me. While knowing myself I put myself to a test, I knew that I couldn't role joints, however that day felt like a day when if I tried to roll it would work, it was quite a strange feeling but i'm used to strange and I knew that day that i wanted to, so, I easily rolled two nice joints unfortuantly tabacco ones. Since then i've rolled one iffy one and the rest have been unuseable, completly hopeless, but i put this inability to roll down to not really wanting to acually roll, and i know this to be true because I know that the day that i did roll two joints, I actually wanted to roll them, so i did, sound silly but its true.

I think If he really wanted to project to you, he would have already read many things on how to project and therefore how to project to you, he would aready have the adress tom gave to you or a site containing similar information. So I dont really have any 'real' advice.

When I think about it I really do know that I can do or achive any gole I set my mind two including making lots of money, however this dosn't interest me, for i need nothing.

[Graelwyn]

Thanks all for your advice... I didnt realise this thread had been moved here *blushes*  

I can project, but not consciously, I dont think...maybe I can, I sometimes can try and 'think' myself to him and see how he is lying, what he is doing etc...and I am usually right...but it isnt REAL enough, if you understand. There are no sensations, I literally just seem to SEE.

Sometimes, when he is thinking of me , I will feel that, especially if he is worried about me, but at night when i want to feel him holding me, I just dont really seem to feel it all that strong.

He has read the site Tom kindly linked me to above, so he does want to be able to do it. Its not astral sex as such I am interested in, I dont care about that. I simply want to be able to feel closer to him until he is able to afford to fly here to visit. It is very hard having a long distance relationship.

He says I have been turning up in his dreams,but I dont remember that and I certainly dont set out to do so.

Maybe I am closed off in some way or other, I dont know. Anyway, all we can do is keep trying, I guess. I will try your method, Nodes for sure and let you know the results.

[clandestino]

Hi there,
This topic looks a little more suited to "OBE discussions" - I hope you don't mind me moving it !

Kind regards,
Mark