Hello, im trying to achieve an obe for about 5 months. about 2 months ago i had got an obe (people say that), but it wasnt like i imagine it happend. At mornin i found myself sleeping, or awake, idnk. I remember my laying there and thinking, oh, im awake or somthing. But i didnt even tryed to open eyes or move. I think i was in stage when my brain and concious went on, but not body. I felt like my body just shot in the air (felt the object like sheet going threw my), then it started, a loud buzzing noise, after 10 sec i god excited, bit scared and woked up. I got 4 almost same acts in those 2 months. It happens when i start to forget about trying obe. It seems that the more i gave up, the more progress i get. yesterday i had same act, i didnt tryed to do it it just happened. And again, dark screen, only feeling your body in somewhere else, and the loud buzzing voice. I got scared again, becouse it came to me when i wasnt ready. What can i do to get to obe stage when i will see everything? Im I on the right way? And please rate how close i am to full obe from 1 to 10.
First you have to handle your fear problem or else you won't go any further. Here is a video bit that might help you with that. The part you want here starts at the 1:00:00 minute mark and goes until 1:07:00. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lRar8IOwic8&feature=BFa&list=PLEB923BB17E5849A3&lf=plpp_video
Next, yes you will find that sometimes when you don't try you are more successful. This could be because you are taking the stress away, calming the expectations. But, if you are still having OBEs, then I would say your higher self thinks you are ready to proceed.
Practice will get you to the next stage. Then once there, using the mental command "clarity now" helps to clear up the Astral Vision.
It's hard for us to rate where you are, I would say you are definitely making progress and that's what's important here!
Good Luck and Safe Travels! :-)