have i attracted a negative entitie?

[lex198]

i have recently become very interested in astral projection and everything to do with the subject. The other day i read an article on negative entities and how they can attach themselves to you and how they are attracted to negativity. Reading this had lead me to think i may have a negative parasite of some kind.

4 years ago i was bullied very badly at school i am 1/4 Jamaican and there was a large group of very racist people at my school who used this as an excuse to torture me at every chance they got, verbally and physically and it made the 2 years i spent at school (i was home educated for the rest of the time) absolute hell.

They stopped after I left school but ever since it started i have had very bad luck, nothing i attempt to do seems to go to plan; i haven't had a girl friend, i started at a music college when i left school and have made very few new friends and i've been trying to get a band together for almost a year and a half now and no matter what i do things just wont go the way i want them to. Most of these negative experiences seems to be out of my control.
Also i have very negative thoughts that seem to pop in to my head without me wanting them to and some of them can be quite shocking. Is it possible that during those two years that all that negative energy created by the bullying has attracted a negative entitie or am i just going through a very unlucky period in my life? and if so how do i get rid of it? Any suggestions or explanations would be very much appreciated.

ps i didnt mean to make this a poll so please done bother voting

[slipknot0129]

same thing with me they did it because i was shy, i havent had a gf yet , i quit school to get out of it.

[lily moonsong]

Have you seen any negative entities?  Well, unless you've seen it, don't go thinking the worse.  Give yourself the benefit of a doubt.  It doesn't matter really, regardless of if you have a negative entity attached to you or not, the steps to start living a better life will still be the same.

Think positive, take care of yourself, surround yourself with people who care about you, don't hang out with people who will put you down verbally or physically.  Take time to do things for you.  Don't worry about other people, just your family and closest friends.  The rest will work itself out...

[phitau]

Think positive, take care of yourself, surround yourself with people who care about you, don't hang out with people who will put you down verbally or physically.  Take time to do things for you.  Don't worry about other people, just your family and closest friends.  The rest will work itself out...

Great advice, lily!

It seems to me that these students have made you feel negative about yourself. With that, a negative entity may very well have become attached to you from this. Take lily's advice, and you will better your situation.

[Milkdrops]

Kinda unlikely if you ask me unless you have already been out there in the astral and somehow your negative feelings were lingering which possibly invited some bad entity to mess with you. Otherwise just sounds like you have major self esteem issues.

I had hassle in school with bullies also and have even thought to go astral, find them, then somehow exact revenge! lol but no I figured even if I could mess with them like that my spirit guides or god himself would not be impressed. Maybe i'd lose my astral privilages or something.

[markulous]

Based on what you've said I would say no.  Unless you surrender yourself to them in some way I don't see how it would of attached itself to you.

I've had some really bad luck through out my life as well.  And like like you said, it was almost out of my control.  Either it was past life kharma or it was just crap that happened.  Either way the only thing I could do is move past it and learn from it.

The advice lily gave was pretty good.  I'd really just take some time for yourself and focus on you and what close friends and family you have.  Don't worry about not having a girlfriend.  At this point I don't think you need one.  Find yourself and gain some confidence first.

[lex198]

ok, thanks for the advice everyone, ill try the positive thinking and that and see what happens.
Does anyone know if you can only receive kharma in this life for stuff u have done in past lives? or do your actions in this life effect the way the rest of your life goes as well as your future lives?

[TemperMode]

I'll be blunt. There may be something about your personallity that attracts this negative attention. This may have come about due to the bullying that you were inflicted with during your school years or this may have been part of your personallity before this and may have attracted the attention of the bullies to begin with.

I don't think that just attempting to think positive is going to be enough to change this about you. I'm not saying that it is bad advice, but that it is too easy to fall back into your old mindset.

Your brain is like a computer and life experiences are like programs that you put into this computer. You may have inadvertantly programmed your brain to take on a victim mentallity and this can be extraordinarilly difficult to break free from.

My suggestion would be to take a more proactive approach to changing this programming and start inputting a new program with more alpha-male type qualities (excuse this term).

First of all, you need to directly confront what has happened to you and really think about what it has made you feel. You need to accept this past as being a part of yourself and forgive yourself. I would also suggest that you attempt to forgive the people that did this to you. While this is not mandatory, there is a certain freedom that you will obtain from this and you may be able to more fully let it go.

Exericise. I would suggest martial arts, if this is available to you. Nothing will increase your confidence better than being able to physically defend yourself. However, any type of physical activity will not only increase your physical strength, but your emotional strength too. Exercise releases endorphins into your brain and creates a feeling of well-being. If you don't enjoy excercise, trust me, it will grow on you. You have to keep at it. Eventually, you will not be able to live without it. Again, it is about programming your brain. If you are still quite young, excericise can also make you more physically attractive too (and I'm sure I will get in trouble for saying this). It increases the amount of testosterone in your body which can actually help to develope your skeletal structure (most prominently, in your face).

Try to work on your sense of humour. Try to constantly think of funny things to say. This may be hard at first, but this can be learned. Almost everyone in the world enjoys being around someone who is funny (most of the ladies like it too). Not only that, but laughing is probably one of the best ways to decrease stress. A good sense of humour can also really help to diffuse tense situations.

Speaking of the ladies. They can smell a victim personallity from miles away. And let me tell you, they do not find it attractive.

Still, the most important thing you can do is to really look inside of yourself and ask yourself if there is anything that you don't like. Once you recognise the aspects about yourself that you don't like, you will be miles further towards changing yourself for the better. You can also be assured that the aspects you discover you don't like, will be the same aspects that may be keeping other people from attaching themselves to you.

I will also say (and this is only my opinion) that removing yourself from school may not have been the best idea. You could be running the risk of stunting your social developement. I have only met a few people that were home schooled, but there was a certain social inneptitude that caused me to eventually dislike almost all of them. And not one of them was socially gifted (Sorry to the other home-schooled out there. This is just my personal experience).

We all go through stages of bad luck. For some reason they seem to come and go in waves. However, it always seems like the littlest things that can turn the tide. If you are willing to really take reins and make a determined move towards bettering yourself, this may be all it takes to change your luck. Just remember to try and catch it every time you say something negative to yourself so that you can recognise when you may be going wrong and you can stop yourself from doing it.

[Zante]

I was brought up in something of an unstable family. Everything the original poster speaks of I am familiar with. I allow all kinds of thoughts to pop into my head now, they range the entire spectrum from the unspeakable taboo to what might be considered appropriate by other people. I just don't act on them, I do observe them however as it feels good to allow this much to flow through me unhindered. If one of those thoughts starts coming close to manifesting/being acted out, then I intervene and stop everything altogether. I'm meditating for two hours per day now and the clarity is magnificent. I try to avoid pretending to be a certain type of person, I've enjoyed watching my ego and seeing how it works, immensely so (even despite the emotional pain). We tend to be alarmed by the more negative thoughts but don't care too much when a positive one pops in. ;]

Balance means killing off the altered ego completely (don't respond to it, instead only watch it) I'm not there yet. A troubled past gives us great opportunities for reflecting on ourselves. During an OBE, reach the stage where you can recognise those elements whose only purpose is to interfere and ask to speak with them directly (it's a powerful experience), help them without feeling superior in the process. Quite often they want nothing to do with it, "no", "shutup" are all common responses. Keep your focus and watch them dissipate.