Losing focus and control

[Spawn_Xe]

a number of months on and i'm hitting some problems (i'm not in the most regular of practice with obes.. but i do energy raising and meditation from time to time). First of all, is i'm falling asleep before hitting sleep paralysis (when i try) almost all the time now.. my mind seems more suseptible to wandering off, so if anyone has any tips on solving that it'd be very much appreciated. Secondly, if i actually manage to get to an OBE ready state (hppens accidentaly nowadays yet still rarely) the last few have ended real short.. i'd get up out of my body and then a few seconds later i'd blank out... after what feels like sleeping for a few more hours, i wake up. This is an increasing problem as my first OBEs lasted a decent run yet all left me confused, as they started very clear and lucid but drifted into dream like states.. where i'd feel aware yet not completely in control and making my own decisions with dream like (unrealistic) events.

Also does anyone thing this could be related to my dreams being and feeling more real/harder to descern from reality (its like my brain is taking appropriate countermeasures to my obe attempts lol)