influence of OBEs on LOVE and ATTRACTION

[magickdan]

I'm 15 yr. old so I don't know much but this is what I do know.

Actually I just saw something about this on science channel where scientists ran tests to see what attracted some women to some men and not other men and vice versa.  It basically has to do with smells your body gives off smells in your sweat that attracts certain women to you and vice versa, and people were perfume or colongne that usually matches that smell and they don't consciously know this, they did tests of men wearing clothes for two nights and had various women smell these and some women liked the smell and some didn't.  The smells if right cause the body to create certain hormones.

Kissing is another thing when you kiss someone they and you (if a passionate kiss) have certain hormones released also.

So my guess if you could figure out how to harness these hormones you could make yourself more of a magnet to the opposite sex. Some people it just naturally happens to them. They say the smell thing, is that the opposite sex likes the opposite smell they give off as to give more of randomness in reproduction.

I don't know much about the subject but thats from what I learned from the tv program.  

And things that happen to me around this subject as an example maybe?
Girls seem to act weird around me and not others for somereason possibly my hormones are either telling them to act this way or something else. They seem to always be like shy, and some will just come out and ask questions about my sex life (which I don't have yet I'm just 15) but the majority are just shy, and some just don't notice me. I'm shy by nature which could be a contributer.

That last part was probably just jumble to some of you.  [8D]

[Phong]

I was intrigued by this in junior high and throughout much of high school - what most attractive people had in common was a central comfort with themselves and their environment. I tested this hypothesis and allowed myself first and foremost with myself and everything I interacted with. Sure enough, I was popular, made people laugh, and dated the girls I wanted to date.

It was eerie.

So eerie, in fact, I stopped for fear that I was being "too comfortable" with the world, becoming self-deluted, and an object of jealousy. Yes... I now have issues.. and fully regret ever making such a nonsensical judgement.

[Kuhl]

If you want people to like you, as Phong said, then should be be comfortable with yourself everywhere.  Just relax, talk to people like you know them, and doing this will also lead to selfishness, but hey people will like you.

[The AlphaOmega]

Can't really say where the feeling comes from.  Perhaps the very fact that we experience something that we do not induce or understand conciously means that we are endowed with it in our very nature.  In which case it's unavoidable, but I don't know if that IS the case.  One can choose not to be with someone they love... can one choose not to be in love?  Or vice versa?  If it's good should it be analized for it's essence, or accepted as a gift?  If it's bad should it be analized for it's essence, or be accepted as a curse?  Perhaps the great and the terrible emotions are both equally important in our life.  Should we attempt to control them?  Or subside them?  Even illiminate them?  Or should both spectrums be accepted as equals, and accepted fully?  Well, I've done nothing for this cause but bring up more questions.  Sorry for that!

[Mystic Cloud]

I would also say that that feeling has an anchor point in that
it is a possibility to get both to grow inside the relationship.

The better match, the better possibility to learn from yourself and grow?

Ehh... dunno really... many thoughts coming up that contradicts it but
who knows

[Radium]

Hi everyone,

many times I was wondering while some people are like a magnet to opposite sex while others are not. This is not visual appearance at all to me. I think energies play big role here and I'd really like to how.

Can having OBEs and overall energy body development help
or it this just a different type of energy that does not influence it?

Or can it be blockages in emocional body that are to be removed? How?

Sometimes if you ask people "why do you date him?" "what do you see on him" - they say - "You know there is just something about him...you know something different..I don't know what..He is just the one for me, I feel it"

So what is this "feeling"? where does it come from? how do we create it or control it?

Many thanks for any ideas!

Radim









Personally I believe everything is possible