Sex during Sleep Paralysis

[ImmuredSoul]

huh, that's unusual and sick . . . what's the point in sex in astral? Well, paralysis, at least? Can't you not feel anything when you're paralized? Uh, I can't spell anything . . . where's spell check?

[BOATS]

Probally not worse then a stranger a person would meet in a bar and take home without knowing.

[ImmuredSoul]

quote: Probally not worse then a stranger a person would meet in a bar and take home without knowing.

that's sick

[ImmuredSoul]

Wait, how does one not know that they're taking somebody home from a bar? Did I misunderstand something there? Are you talking about stalkers?

[BOATS]

No, I am talking about sex with a stranger a person would meet at a bar a take home purely by physical attraction.  I guess you have to have spent some time in the Navy to know what I am talking about.

[ImmuredSoul]

[xx(] guess so

[Mystic Cloud]

Sounds like a succubus that lives on sexual energy.
They often take on forms to please the one they paralyse and
then stimulate their sexual chakra until you get an orgasm, after
that they just leave with your energy.

Did you feel drained afterwards or?

If you felt energy drained then I think it is pretty clear evidence,
otherwise it could have been someone/something else.

Best is probably to just focus on one of your toes and try to move
it to break the paralysis.

[Hannah b]

hi.
ok here it goes.
In 90% percent of my obe ( they are usually the low energy ones, not very spiritual...+ I feel the closenes of the physical dimension), I experience many sexual situations.
I'm not being attacked...it's more like I get hit with this  huge sexual energy, and I'm able to project myself into different sexualy oriented situations, where everthing feels almost like in real life, except for orgasms. They are very shallow, and actually painful...and they imedieately end my obe. I really don't know what to do.I get angry at myself, that instead of doing some useful things in the astral, I waste my energy on completely pointless actions(one thing is good; I have plenty of opportunities to practice "mind shifting" in the astral..if that is what you call it?)
It's really difficult for me not to go into these situations, especially that I've noticed that i get most  of my obe when I'm sexually aroused and I just snap out into those sex obe.hmm...am I being controlled by a succubus???
if so, how can i get rid of him?her?( it changes it's orientation)...
any help will be greatly apprecieated;)))
thanks

[Hannah b]

I don't know if that was a reply to my post Major Tom, but if it was, all I can say is that I'm ten years ahead of 15 and I work hard to put some sense into my life. So, no matter how much fun  i'm having, I always see the stupidity of it.
I'm seriously asking for help, eventhough my astral sex partners look a 1000000 times better than Kermit the frog.

[Reemy]

quote: Originally posted by Hannah b
In 90% percent of my obe (they are usually the low energy ones, not very spiritual...+ I feel the closenes of the physical dimension), I experience many sexual situations.
I'm not being attacked...it's more like I get hit with this huge sexual energy

Hannah b, have you read Robert Monroe's Journeys Out of the Body?  In it he discusses how many of his early out-of-body experiments were dominated by a need to sexually connect to others he encountered.  He described it as frustrating at times, in that it was holding him back from further explorations.  In order to overcome it, he said that he would promise himself that he would take care of those sexual urges later, after he'd done a bit of exploring.  He said that the promise--whether he kept it or not--seemed to be all he needed to satisfy the situation.  Maybe you could see if that works for you.

I had a similar situation but it was with my lucid dreams.  Seems all I wanted to do was to fly or have sex.  Eventually (after a year or so)I was able to move on to more creative endeavors (not that I totally gave up flying or having sex in lucid dreams because it's still good fun.)

Namaste,
Reemy

[upstream]

Greetings to all the horny projectors!

Flying and sex.. eh? Like Butterflys? The reason is low awareness.

I'm dealing with my OBE-horniness simply. First, I'm going to explore the 7th heaven and so, then fly back to hunting for chickens above the RTZ. This routine allow me also to reinforce my memories before awakening: "I would like to told you something baby, listen..."

However, if  this kind of "projection's simmetrization" is failed, there is no reward after the day (as it will occur most of the time)...

Don't go for any slutty women, and be careful to check your patner by ordering your interpretatory sytem to reset itself.


>>> upstream

[Hannah b]

Reemy,
I've read all his books, but it was some time ago...so I gues I should put them under my pillow and learn some tips by heart;) This can be a really good way to trick my brainless brain in these situations, I hope I have the strength to say no! later!!:)
When I "turn myself" into a man in the astral, slutty women are the most fun, but also the hardest to get rid of...hmm..I'll try to do some constructive thinking about that;)..thanks Upstream for the idea!

[upstream]

You're welcome.

[holy reality]

quote:Originally posted by BOATS

Things are slow tonight so I thought I would post a new topic.  I also know anything that mentions sex on this site gets alot of reads/responces. Does anyone experience being touched sexually while in the sleep paralysis state?  Several times I have awoken and experienced being touched sexually after a woman has said hello.  I have read of people helping during exit or the Old Hag putting presure on a persons chest, even sex after exit but not sex during paralysis. I have however read of the fear of a sexual attack from someone who might be moving in the next room.  It would have been the last thing I would have expected to experience. I had an OBE in the RTZ and met a women in my living room.  I asked her if she is the one who touches me and she reported she is my cleaning lady and she does not touch me.  I met a physic who told me the woman was clearing my house not cleaning it.

i get it all the time, i had stopped it for a while, but thinking about it has started it up again (as has stress!)....

now frankly though, the paranoid part of me is like "is someone in my room doing this to me?" but when I wake up (not that I usually wake up, I usually end up LDing) no one is there.... but the rational part of me thinks it may be my sexual chakra.

I was going to make a thread about this today actually, thinking about it while at the store.

What I feel (i am male) is I feel soemthing going up my anus, it feels more like energy than anything physical..... now sometimes this feeling, it goes all the way up through it, out of my penis.... yes... it does.... it's VERY WEIRD..... I've had this before I really researched chakras I think... and I haven't been able to explain it.

I know the prostate is in the butt, so.... that could be something to do with it, but what I want to know, is this just chakra activity? I am not familiar with, nor do I understand, the sexual chakra... it seems to be shown over the genitals, but this feeling does not usually involve them, it usually just involves the before mentioned areas, and sometimes comes all the way out the other side.

It usually happens in sex dreams, there will be something behind me, and it will be fondling me back there, and i want it to actually give me a proper handjob up front, BUT IT CAN'T... it NEVER DOES... ever... any masturbation dreams, any sex dreams... my package.. it just.. doesn't have good feelings... I can't stimulate it.. I try to masturbate and I don't have lubrication, no matter what I do, it doesn't work (as if I were actually masturbating in real life while dreaming of it, hence the roughness and no pleasure problem)

I'm perplexed really.... my sex dreams aren't realistic, and they tend to gratuitiously involve people doing things to my backside, I don't think it means I'm gay, initially it was women.... but... it has been family members (and i never want this, aside from a cousin)... it has been my brother, and I wanted to kill him, I wanted to break out of paralysis and murder the hell out of him... but... sometimes I just have to give in... I can't do anything else... it's been my grandma, it's been my mom.... I think it's been my dad.....

If I get out of body it's well, it's whatever my imagination wants to make it, inititally it called itself Maynard and looked like Gollum, I always beat the hell out of it and told it never to come back, and it's stopped.... but... I have these insane sex dreams.... they have toned down but are starting up again, used to be I'd expect any girl to be a demon, and of course she'd turn into them.....

Recently I was staring inside her, about ready to commence getting it on, and I saw a bunch of "teeth" in there, like some sort of horribly evil venus fly trap... well... yeah... she's a demon, kill her... yeah... that almost happened again but I willed it not to, knew not to let my imagination get the best of me.

When I try to pull these things out of me in SP, I can't, I am tugging on something, and pulling and pulling and pulling it out, but it won't leave..... I don't get it.

Sometimes i have woken up and had odd sensations, as if gas, or something... I guess we can be gassy in our sleep.... I seem to get it in certain positions on my side and never while on my back.... um...

I don't know, I've talked to these things and gotten various subconsciously crafted answers, once I tried to psychoanalyze it about me in my anal stage of development as a child, it said weird stuff and turned into a deformed baby.... today it said it was my dad, represented my feelings of oppression and intrusion by my family (spying on me, or th at's how i perceive it anyway) but I mean I already more or less figured that.... then it said it was my dad and my mom, and looked like some fat weird as hell creature that was a combination of two people..

It's just so screwed up... I can't figure it out unless there is just something gastrointestinal going on while I sleep, or my sex chakra is hyper active, or hyper underactive.

The first thing to trigger it last night was a girl randomly running up to me and stabbing me up through my back end all the way out and up through my wang..... it felt like the energy feelings except more, knife shaped.... and well, needless to say I gave her repeated killings and limb hackings.. and yelled at her and told her to not do that again... but..

Someone has to have been through something like this? I dont' understand it at all.... save for the gas or sex chakra theories, I doubt it's an "incubus" i don't believe in those things, I'm not in the "astral" and they are so incoherent and easy to control and manipulate they just can't be real....

[holy reality]

also when i have sex in a dream the women told to some mushy human clay form with no clear human charateristics and incorrect anatomy

I have to try my damn hardest to say "okay you should have a vagina here, and it should look like this.... now.. you should be moving and making noise while i'm doing you... okay... your face shouldn't be upside down.... umm... your boobs should be big.... umm... you shouldn't look exactly like me" and so on.

they look just like real girls from a distance, but when I start doing them they lose all realism, this pisses me off so much bcause I can direct two dream characters to have sex and their parts look realistic and they behave like normal people would behave while having sex... yet if I try to do it... NOTHING... not a thing.

It often times feels like I'm having sex with a wall or something, there is nothing to penetrate... it's like I'm almost doing it with my bed in real life which is why I can't get good sensations in dream, or something.

Maybe I need to video tape myself while I sleep? I don't know, does anyone have this problem? I'm a virgin so I can understand some grey areas my subconscious has to fill in, but sex is instinctual and burned in our memories.... and.... well, I've seen enough porn to reconstruct a female body, yet... most times... I can't.

I guess my mind is trying to tell me I have insane issues with sex or something, but I don't know why it can't just give me a nice orgasm... I never have them... if I do I wake up when they begin and nothing happens.

quote:Don't go for any slutty women, and be careful to check your patner by ordering your interpretatory sytem to reset itself.

What? How do you do that? What does it do? What do you mean?

[BOATS]

I was having one AP and a lot of the most beautiful women were ignoring me and it was getting me annoyed.  I said to myself "HaY this is my dream and I should be able to do what I want" a guy standing behind me says "Have you looked at yourself in the mirror?" I said "that's a good idea." My pants were on sideways and my hair messed up, my belt was loose.  I thought to myself I look like a bum.  I straighten myself up and picked up the first beautiful girl walking by.  We finally found a place to be alone and the sex felt normal but she seems to have become kind of sleazy after penetration, not that there is anything wroung with that and I awoke to soon.

[Hannah b]

Thanks Major Tom,
I know that it's a bad habbit, but I'm in this specific moment of my life when I decided to become "virgin Mary " again(no means of offending anyone here.)..So sexual mind wandering is actually one of the very few pleasures I have in life right now.I've always had a huge libido and I can't imagine breaking the habbit. I know that I should be concentrating on other things, but sex is just really an important issue in my life...so...I decided to give it up in real life(not forever though;))...but giving up fantasizing about it is just impossible. maybe if I meet mr Right in 1000 years I'll solve it somehow...for now I guess I'll just keep saying "later")

Holy cow!Holy reality!!...I really don't know what to say...I just thought that the incorrect anatomy could be somehow related with you being a virgin...no means of offending you, but if I did something a hundred of times, I just get used to the way it should look or feel...hmm..so maybe with time it should change..

one more thing ..I often have the "double mind" or "triple mind"effect while in obe...like I feel what the person I'm having sex is feeling and thinking....pretty amazing, what you can find out.Anyone has experienced this??

[upstream]

Holy Reality...I've eperienced and understand your problem.

You may know for sure, that there are dreams in which women are not fluid and ugly or turn to puppets, but are full of joy and brightness, and Mozart divertimentos are played in the background. Reality fluctuations will occur when you try to interact/perceive something that have no energy field behind. If you're in a mixed projections around F21/22, some dream objects are maintained only by your constant flux of attention. Perhaps they have been had someting behind them, which triggered your sensory system to make that picture, but its cause ceased to exist. Due to the reason that your system can't accept abrupt changes, it will try to sustain the envelope pictures. If you would turn away, weaken you concentration by thinking, or directly order your system to reconfigure itself, those elements would dissolve.

At first, some of your partner would act like a real person, but turn into puppets when things get interesting for your penis. Those partners supposed to be real people who waked up by her (his?!) own arousal. Sex in the dream state is something that is not easy to practice. The somatosensory feedback seems to be much more greater than in the waking states. If you touch your lower body and amplify the residual feelings awakening is almost granted. These feedback diminish only when the constant feedback between the projected and projector carriers become impossible by relativistic time distortion in the "deep astral." By the way, when you reach that point your partners are not humans anymore, but other conscious energy fields trying to recombine their informational structure with yours.

Sometimes the sexual stimulation are performed directly on your bioplasm body by external forces, triggering your subconsciousness to have a sexual dream. If this dream have to collapse by overstimulation or safety reasons, you may find yourself in a paralysed state experiencing the work of your sensory sytem as tring to interpret your attacker as incubus/succubus, gnome, jellifish, or something proper picture you have registered in your vocabulary.

Your subconscious has a built-up security system, so you're forced to wake up, when something is turn to wrong. If you go for slutty women and don't look behind, you will be awakened within moments - again and again until you'll learn your lesson and hold back your horniness until a proper environment emerge or got the ability to create some entertainment for yourself.


so be careful, but keep in mind, that my penis is bigger than yours:

>>> upstream

[Hannah b]

Actually I am worried about the lack of control during it.You're right that I don't wanna let go of it completely, but that's another story.
Thanks for the imput, but no harm would have been done if you could have been a bit more polite.

[upstream]

My Ladies, please...

[upstream]

please..

You can get me anytime you want.

[Hannah b]

thanks upstream,
I know, I know;))

Hope you like the Western Sahara, cause I've been on Synai a month ago, and unfortuneately it wasn't the best trip I've had...so I hope yours is a million times better.

[upstream]

you know, it's a never ending enjoyment... but something is missing

perhaps you?

[upstream]

Oh, really? Thanks my darling...

[Hannah b]

auch! sexy beast...I'll do my best to keep the image of that face, next time I have a trip!