something to ponder!!!

[the8reader]

just about 3 weeks ago my brother killed himself. he never new anything about what we do like AP, OBE ect.. so i have been thinking will the few of us that practice this art, be more prepared for the after life. Example i am in control when i AP or obe, i know what i am doing and i am full of happiness, i feel at home and there is no confusion. Maybe that's because i am still alive and well! but does doing this make it so when i die i will not be caught in a circle of hate and illusion and other stuff. i just worry for my brother and have been trying to find him but with not luck. Do i have to search some were dangerous you think? i just don't want him to be in a repeat of him killing himself you know. just i thought not a statement.

What do you guys/gals think? will we be better prepaired? Do you think after doing this that you are less scared of death?

[Xanth]

Sorry for your loss, the8reader. 

In essence, yes, that's what I personally believe.
However, we're still at the whim of our emotional and state of mind at the point when we pass.

Personally speaking, I have no fear of death anymore.  My fear is for those I leave behind.  :/

[Simo]

Sorry for your loss friend   As for the question I think that the ony difference between AP and death is  that when you Ap,you can return to your body,while the second gives you no chance of returning,becouse your physical body is dead.Those repeats of the death events are only on the movies,whise some decide to remain close to the ones they love.

Personally speaking, I have no fear of death anymore.  My fear is for those I leave behind.  :/

Xanth I could'n have said it better than you!this is the same way I feel abouth death!the8reader be strong and don't be sad-sooner or later we all be togheder in a place with no pain and suffering

[the8reader]

im not sad.. or scared i was just wondering it more people thought the way i did. i to am not scared of death but fear for the ones i leave... but at least i feel like i will be more prepared for death and the after life. do you think by use doing this we will start on a higher plaine or do you think we will all start out on the same one??

[Simo]

Maybe we all start at the same plane,but we will now where we are and where to go,plus we won't be afraid and confused...So I think it will be easy for us to reach higher plane once we're out.Personally,I will go to a plane where I can find someone that I know,and maybe I go from plane to plane to find the people that mean a lot for me in the physical plane...

[urshebear]

the8reader, I know where you're coming from
My father did the same thing and afterwards I was just plagued with questions wondering where he is. I believe it is possible to maintain a relationship with your brother but from my experiance sometimes its easier for them to come to us.
focus on him before you project or before you go to sleep. I truley believe that focusing on the energy of someone who has passed is like to calling them to you.

When I die I am going to a huge medow with long grass and wildflowers and the sun will be always shining. This is the picture of heaven that has been in my head since I was a little girl but in saying that I feel I will definatly be more prepared than your average person because I will know that I can leave my heaven if I want to where is alot of people think wherever they go after death will be the end of their journey.