Astral Sex Guide by BIRM

[Malevicta]

Alright.

I want to preface everything here by stating that this is all extremely new to me and looking back at the last year I dearly wish I had known even the tiniest bit of this information because... well... I think I would have been more careful with myself.

For the past several years (since the onset of my narcolepsy) I have been having very vivid sex dreams, and having read the article I now doubt that they were dreams but astral sex... The issue I would like to address is that of BDSM, something which I started actively researching roughly a year ago, especially the dominance/submission aspect of it.

The thing that bothers me is this. I developed a habit of sending requests out right before I fall asleep, because they seem to have an impact on my dreams, particularly the really vivid ones that I always hesitated to call dreams because they were of a different quality than my dreams... these are what I now think are astral trips... Anyway, I have a distinct memory of falling asleep (being in that place between wakefulness and sleep) and being very frustrated sexually and sending out a call... Something along the lines of wanting to be owned and controlled and wanting to give myself to someone. I know I have done things like this in the past, where I send out requests, but the reason why this particular one sticks with me is that I don't remember putting any boundaries on it, on actually saying there were no boundaries and the request being left very open ended. Usually I have put boundaries on these requests, because part of me didn't feel safe NOT putting boundaries on them... but for whatever reason I didn't this particular time.

Since then I have realized that a couple of things are changed. The first is that I have lost alot of control over my astral state (I feel uncomfortable calling it that because I have thought of them as dreams for so long). The second is that when I have astral sex it is no longer fulfilling... I feel exhausted physically and mentally afterward and rarely orgasm anymore... The third and perhaps most troubling is that I have had a series of attackers... not human, the closest thing I can compare them to are demons, but I feel silly and like I am overexagerating... Haunting my not-conscious state, (perhaps it is the same being, but changes form, there are at least three different ones that I have identified, a new one coming just after I thought I had driven off the old one. Two I have pictures I have drawn, to get them out of my head and one of those I named because I remember asking it who are you? and it answered, named itself and I woke up and drew a crude crayon (all I had at the time) picture of it and wrote it's name on it)...

At first I thought it was just really bad nightmares, and I would struggle to wake up, to drive the... things... off of me, away from me...But when I started waking up crying and the hairs on my arms standing on end I wondered otherwise... I started to wonder if it was all more than dreams, or hypnogogic hallucinations (a symptom of narcolepsy) when I woke up and turned on the light and was yelling at the thing in the room to GET OUT OF MY ROOM, OUT OF MY HOUSE AND TO NEVER GO NEAR ME OR ANY OF MY LOVED ONES TO GET THE F*** OUT, and my brother came in to calm me down... and I think the turning point was again, waking up after beating this thing off of me and turning on the light and getting my sword out and standing in the middle of my room and whispering over and over "get out. leave. don't come back." And I kept getting these chills up and down my spine, my hair has never stood on end like that... and then the dog in my brothers room started growling.

It was the dog that made me thank that maybe I wasn't crazy and these weren't just hypnogogic hallucinations gone bad, and I started reading into some of this stuff and went so far as to ask mom to cast a spell of protection (she's wiccan) for me and hung sage everywhere... Which is completely out of character for me, I've never believed in any of this stuff... I've not NOT believed, but never believed...

So I am reading over this and wondering if this is even the right forum to post it in... It almost sounds like I summoned something(s) (and I am still having a hard time wrapping my mind around these concepts, but I am flexible and can learn)... But there you have it.

Now my story is out I am at a bit of a loss for what to say. I read it and I still wonder if I am just blowing out of proportion a series of bad dreams, maybe the dog just growled because I was up so late at night... a thousand reasons why I am just being silly... but the more I read the more it scares me, in part because it all make so much sense it explains so much, not just about this string of incidents but about other things as well...

So there we have it. I would like advice, any advice people might have on how to help and where some more information can be found on this, maybe the right forum to post this in... Sorry if it is a little off topic, anyway.

Alright. That's it. I can't think of anything else to add.

[Huwie]

"He thought that after all, the very meaning of life is to find an ideal partner(ideal for us, because we want to reproduce his/hers good qualities – see them in our children) and reproduce humans."

HA!  No excrement, Schopenhauer!

[Eol007]

Hi Malevicta,

Very much appreciate you taking effort to relate your experiences and clearly you are alarmed! You seem like a really nice person and I am sure things will sort themselves out and have a sensible explanation given time.

I feel that you have come to the right place and it is obvious that whatever is troubling you to this extent must stop. There are plenty of people here who can help.

In the mean time you may find the articles on the main site on subjects like Astral Sex and Psychic Protection useful. Take time to read them see: http://www.astralpulse.com/articles/articles.htm or http://www.astralpulse.com/magick/magick.htm

I am going to keep my reply short, but be comforted that help will be on its way. In the mean time take time out to clear your mind as best you can before retiring at night. Use whatever means you are comfortable with in terms of prayers of protection according to your faith. Hopefully the feelings of wanting to be, and of seeming to be under or subject to control will abate. You must trust that this will come about, OK!!!

Kind wishes,



Stephen []

[galacticsurfer]

I have noticed since first reading and responidng to this topic how much sex/relationships with the opposite sex are in my dreams and in relationship to my moral feelings in the dreams about it. It  seems that most of my dreams have something to do with relationships with women or my wife in some way or other. Sometimes seeng nudity or touching or sex as such are involved. Sometimes the thought is about the realtionship and the emotions and responsibilities involved. Mostly these overlap just like in real life. Just having sex or purely platonic relationships are rare. the things just don't work that way really. I am always interested in love and affection when I make love or talk to a woman in my dreams. The more I concentrate on this the better my concentration on the depth of the relationship within the sexual context becomes enhanced in the dream. Without this depth of emotional intimacy I do not believe I personally can really "get into" astral sex. I wake up too quickly before it really gets to the climax emotionally or "physically".

[Birm]

Hi there,

Last night after having an Astral Sex experience i decided to write about it on the forums. So that people can learn how to have the SAFEST sex experience easily.

First, Have you read the artice about Astral Sex in the site. Well actually i have read it and Robert Bruce's knowledge is very essential. You can find the article here :
http://www.astralpulse.com/articles/robert/articles_3.htm

Well in my experience Astral Sex is very similar what Robert describes. I want to tell you about it in my own point of view:

First of all, I decide to have a projection so i start meditating, using bwgen or any other method and start out... After spending 15-20 minutes on trying to reach a higher level of concentration i check if i have enough energy to project by trying to move in my room. I simply move around and try to examine the things around in my room. Then my eyes start moving rapidly.(At first i was scared of this but it is a sign for me now...) Then i move my conciousness to my Astral body which is creating the environment i am in at that moment. If i concentrate on my physical body i can feel it, i can feel my eyes moving left to right at a very high speed...(feels annoying) I then concentrate on my astral body and start wandering around... In the beginning everyting seems blurry so i move slower and let my subconcious have enough time to create the environment for me... As i get used to the environment i am ready to have Astral Sex!

Having Astral Sex:

Now i have two options: To find an astral partner around or to create one for myself. Creating your partner is harder because you may have doubts about it so i suggest you to look around to find someone. Well here is what i do: I always go to the crowded places in town where you can always find people to be with... So I jump up and start to fly around a little, then i fly to the place i want to visit. When i arrive i choose a gal to have sex for myself... After choosing one i take her from her hand and ask her to come with me. (Sometimes they dont want to do that so look for another one if that happens...) Take her to somewhere suitable to have sex. Thats all you do...

Ok. We found a partner, we found a good place to have sex and now what?

Well in my experience i must have been having erection right now before we start. So i check my physical body by concentrating on it and return to my astral body quickly in order to keep up the energy needed for creating the astral environment. I start by touching my partner slowly. Then i let it happen. It just happens you dont need to do anything more... Have fun.

There are things you should be aware of:
- While having astral sex dont try to feel your physical body. That way the projection will suddenly end and you wake in the real world.

- While having astral sex try to feel the environment, the smell, the sounds and the feel of your partners body. Dont try to visualize anything, let your astral body create the environment for you. Trust your astral body, you will have the sex of your life!!!

- If you come, dont panic. Your physical body may or may not have come. If you panic you will suddenly awake in your bed.

- Dont rush. Let it be slowly. It always takes longer... I always feel high pressure around my whole body as i come. Wait for that pressure... It is a very different feeling from the real sex believe me. So just let it go with the flow...

- Sometimes a second partner appears suddenly but it is always a bad idea to change your partner. You will break your concentration by doing that...

- The smell of your partner is very important. Try to smell! It is a great feeling...

- You will feel exhausted after coming in your Astral body. But you will be suprised that when you wake up, your physical body will be refreshed. And full of energy.

- Dont try to have control over the experience. All you have to do is trying to feel the environment as much as you can. This is very important or you will wake in your bed...

- Dont forget to download the memories of your Astral Body into your Physical body. Do that by trying to feel your physical while projecting and think about the things you did while projecting from beginning to end. This way you can remember every detail.

Well thats all for now... If something i dont write here comes to my mind later i will edit this post...

Have fun
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