Eliminating the nonphysical influence of another person?

[Palehorse]

Long time no post.  ::waves::

Hm... hopefully I'll be able to explain what I'm asking in a way that makes at least some sense, because I'm not sure I fully understand the concepts involved myself.

Recent circumstances have led me to believe that when two people are close enough, for long enough, their respective influences (energies?) merge in a sense, until a balance is reached.  Well, if both people are relatively positive and well adjusted, this can be a good thing... their positive influences and strength will reflect and magnify each other.  But if one of them is really negative, unstable, dependent, etc... not so much.  The more negative person may derive some benefit from such an arrangement and be somewhat "lifted up," but meanwhile the positive person is being pulled down and held at a level that probably isn't entirely healthy.

I myself just got out of a similar situation a few months ago, and for many reasons, am now looking into making sure this person's influence is eliminated from my life, and mine from theirs, at every possible level, for the sake of my own well being.  I think I have a pretty decent understanding of how this can be done internally, and have had good results with my methods, though I'd still be open to suggestions.  What I'm wondering about is whether these influences can remain in/on physical objects that were associated with the relationship, and if so, how that influence can be gotten rid of without necessarily getting rid of or destroying the object.  Most stuff I do plan on destroying because it'll be easier, but other things I'd kinda like to not just toss out, like a printer and a digital camera, heh.

So yeah, I'm curious as to whether this is even a valid concern at all... this isn't really my area of expertise, so for all I know these things might not even work that way.  And, if it is, what can be done about it.

Thanks in advance.  

[labouts]

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Edit: For the object thing, don't be too worried. yes, an impression is made, but it shouldn't bother you much unless you know Psychometry. You could just have a bad association with the objects to that just give you the impression they have negative energies.

[Souljah333]

lots of experience with this (most of us have). you have made your intentions clear to the universe, by moving away from this person. that's all that needs to be done. the rest is residual and will wear off in time. if it were quick, painless and not-messy...little would be learned from it, and we'd just keep placing ourselves in the same situations again and again.  

even just one sexual encounter with another person, can leave a auric impression for several weeks...so who knows (sexual or not) how much of an effect a long-term relationship can have?!? there is one lesson that should be noted, and will help with clearing yourself...and that has to do with your side of the agreement. you take on the mentality of a victim in your explanation (i would assume you're the "positive" person) of being "dragged" down...and i'm not saying you weren't, or it hasn't "effected" you. it most definitely has. no beating yourself up (of course), but a healthy spoonful of responsibility in the situation, makes it easier to validate the power you found to leave...and respecting this move is a must. there is an obvious connection still...or you wouldn't have made the post. as long as you're still focusing energy on this person, they are still draining something of you. move on as best you can. move your focus to other things, to yourself, to people you love & respect, but remember to take a break from "helping" others at this time...till you get back in your grove. it's easy to fall back into dysfunctional relationships on the rebound. we live in a service-to-self world...there are many more people out there desperately waiting, seeking to "feed" than there are donors. you must always be on guard. as you have realized...this is a very real danger (but not one we can't overcome).

best of luck
soul

[LeonPrimrose]

Avtually that's a good point palehorse. I find it true in many cases. But what about when you seem to be matched already? I've just recently met someone who is in every way excactly like me, except his hair's long which I'd been planning to do for a while anyway. We think alike, our fighting styles are similar, neither of us has ever gotten drunk or done any drugs, and we are already able to know what the other is thinking. Is it possible that some people are so mentally alike that this could happen logically, or is it just a coincidence? I'm thinking the first myself...

And another question. If it's true that spending time with a friend can make you more mentally alike which is what it was like with this next friend. Then, what if me and my friend were sort of like 2 pieces of a puzzle? Sorta like yin and yang. I am the calm, fast, thinker, and he's the strong, angered, fighter. And I've never been able to think as clearly when I'm with him.

He moved to Florida but I'm curious what you guys have to say...