me and this woman have been dating on and off for about 10 months right...pretty sure im gonna marry this chica...anyway, there are times we think of the same thing or of each other around the same time(w/in minutes or seconds) and last night we were gonna go to best buy cause she wanted to pick up a few CDs and wanted me to go with her...she was suppose to call before she left to come get me. well, she never called and i was like hmm guess we're not going. and as i got off the phone with my mom i was thinking. shes probably pulling up right now and walkin up to my door and about to ring the door bell. i thought "ring the door bell" as the door bell rung...and who was it? exactly it was her.
just right now, im talking to her over AIM, i got up to get something to drink, and i thought to myself, i should tell her my room will be clean next time she sees it(its gross...and its pretty bad when the person who's room it is thinks so). i get back, and she says "Is your room clean yet?"
so how would you explain that?
its called "being in tune"... happens with me and my gf heaps.
elaborate...
it freaks me out sometimes, like how i pictured her walking up to the door. and ringing my door bell as she was doing those things.
Sometimes when I'm with my Dad, It'll be quiet and I'll get a strange thought in my head for no reason, and then my Dad will immediately say it. It's like the light bulb in his brain lit mine up too. Cool stuff. I have no decent scientific explanation though.
Just because you consciously don't know what is happening doesn't mean that your unconscious mind is oblivious as well. How do you think subliminal works. Hell you could have actually heard her coming to your house and subconsciously knew that the timing to ring the bell would be then, and actually your unconscoius mind led you to that imagery to let you know. And your room? well if she knew it was dirty before, then she could have just been asking.
If you learn how to read people like I have you can have "psychic" powers in knowing what people are thinking because their bodies actually give off signals that you can learn to recognize.
It's hard to tresspass into the domain of the unconscious when the very term comes with the subtext that we are unaware of it's dynamics.
If you are seeing the event PRIOR to it happening then it's a matter of clairvoyance. If you are literally seeing her doing these things AS she is doing them then it may be a kind of spontaneous conscious split allowing you to remote view outside your house. The sight then may your own mental construction of a feeling you are having. If you are only FEELING things happening I'd echo somewhat along the lines of what Mez is saying of being 'in tune'.
My theory is when two people spend enough time together the become accustomed to a common/agreed wavelength. This is really branching into idea's of telepathy.
-AM
oooh, everything you guys said is pretty interesting.
You can train this lil skill if you want. Me and my ex girlfriend have always been interested in paranormal and pyschic stuff. One night when we were on the phone, we decided to try out telepathy, and to our suprise, it worked! She would think really hard of a memory and the emotions she had at the time, and 9 times out of 10 I would guess the emotion she was feeling. After that, I tried it with about 3 other people, and it worked every time. Colors arn't very easy to do, but emotions work great. It even worked with a friend I have who lives 3 states away from me.
If you want to learn more about it, I suggest you go to psipog.net, and check out the telepathy manual. Very informative.