Grandmother

[heter]

Hello..

I have recently had to make the decision to live with my grandma. It was something I really wanted to avoid, but it seems I have no choice. The reason I am posting this is because she is impossible to get along with. She is very controlling and manipulative. It seems that she likes to make people angry. She does things to make everyone angry and ticked off. She doesn't shut the f*ck up and it really gets to me and affects my behavior with everyone. Also, this makes it really hard for my spiritual development including, meditation, astral projection, and energy work.

So is there anyway I can use energy or something metaphysical to change her? I don't want to harm her, but "fix" her.

Any suggestions?

[CaCoDeMoN]

Hi Heter!
I also have such kind of grandmother. The whole 1st floor of my house is occupied by her. I've never seen worse person in my life. She loves to control everything, and it seems that she is a "psychic vampire" - she feeds on negative emotions. There is a constant war between me and her. In this summer I was building a motorbike engine with my brother, and when we were inserting gears into gearbox, she came and we began arguing.(because she invited the kids that were throwing stones at my dog into our backyard, and if the dog would bite them, my father would be responsible) She would never tell that she was wrong and instead she insulted me, so I began insulting her. After this she began full-scale war with me, my brother and my parents. She destroyed all the plants in my mother's garden, she is throwing insults at everyone. Our tactics is to ignore her. When my brother was coming back from school one day, she started insulting him. When he didn't responded, she started crying. I've never seen tears on her face before. She had an emotional breakdown. She also bought a house in Warsaw, so I would have to live with her there, because I will study in this city. I would never live with her, because she would have absolute control over me.

[heter]

Hi Heter!
I also have such kind of grandmother. The whole 1st floor of my house is occupied by her. I've never seen worse person in my life. She loves to control everything, and it seems that she is a "psychic vampire" - she feeds on negative emotions. There is a constant war between me and her. In this summer I was building a motorbike engine with my brother, and when we were inserting gears into gearbox, she came and we began arguing.(because she invited the kids that were throwing stones at my dog into our backyard, and if the dog would bite them, my father would be responsible) She would never tell that she was wrong and instead she insulted me, so I began insulting her. After this she began full-scale war with me, my brother and my parents. She destroyed all the plants in my mother's garden, she is throwing insults at everyone. Our tactics is to ignore her. When my brother was coming back from school one day, she started insulting him. When he didn't responded, she started crying. I've never seen tears on her face before. She had an emotional breakdown. She also bought a house in Warsaw, so I would have to live with her there, because I will study in this city. I would never live with her, because she would have absolute control over me.

So nothing I can do?

[CaCoDeMoN]

Hmmm.... Just ignore her totally, don't talk to her at all and don't answer her questions. This should drive her mad
Also you can use magick to gain money(this really works, I've gained more than 2000$, and in Poland it's great amount of money), and rent a flat if she will be too annoying.