hi Michael..
Your mamma needs love, not avoidance because her stressing bothers you or the other family members.
Be calm yourself when around her.
Your Acceptance of her as she is,
Your Understanding and listening when needed
is probably what she is requiring.
Not easy to be this way with one's mamma!!
As time winds it's way, the roles reverse somewhat.
Sometimes the child has to be the parent!!
Please try this, and see that she has a cradle of love, much like she gave you when you were a crying, stressed out infant.
Do nice things for her.!!
I have found that we can't change others, only ourselves.
And I'm sending love to her right now.
hang in there, Michael, mammas' are the hardest thing, but the most rewarding!!
Love, Danush
Try touch healing to mend a broken arm or dealing with your parents having the yearly knock down drag out verbal abuse type fight, as all parents do. THAT IS STRESS. My mother is a nag and my father is an overcritical pain, but those are their bad points :-D
Like it was said, /\/\ama needs love, not avoidance.
Hi everyone! I need your help. My mom has been retired for a year, and she stresses out over the little things in life. We've tried to calm her down, but nothing works. She gets no sleep, she works way too hard, even though she is retired, and frankly, nobody wants to be around her. I'd appreciate any help.
Michael