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bewarevileye


Is there any muslim in here that can explain why some muslims force their own beliefs or faiths and even blackmail other muslims if they don't follow the religion??

I wasn't raised by my relative but i have lived with her now and every year that passes she grows more and more obsessed with religion.

The other night she yelled at me and said if you won't pray your 5 daily prayers then you can't live with me.
And I told her that I            years old and that you are in America a land of the free and that I put a deposit in this house and pay part of the rent and surely I won't have a problem renting my own place because I lived on my own before I moved in with you.   

She constantly says that 9/11 was a setup and that Osama Bin Laden is a good muslim man who was wrongly acussed and I constantly tell her that even if he was as innocent as a teddy bear there is a Wanted Sign with his picture everywhere and when people escape from jail or are wanted for any reason you could get in trouble if you don't report where they are.  I told her that people follow what the majority think even if the majority is in the wrong because people do not want to be set apart from the majority.  So therefore it would be wise to follow what the majority thinks if you are in their country and I told her don't let other hear of what you tell me it will only make your life harder.

If I am worshipping god because she is threatening to get me to move out then that means I don't really have my heart in the prayer and it is not valid correct?? so why doesn't she come to her senses and think straight. 

She has become aware that I had drank beer a couple of times and she also uses that against me.  Even though I stopped drinking because of my job and because of the hate of having hangovers.  This woman yelled at me the other night when a couple of friends of mine called me because they wanted me to buy some beer with them because they were short on cash and I told them O.k. I will come just to get them to stop calling me and here she is sitting in the living room yelling "I heard that, I want you to get out of my face"
and we yelled at each other and I made her cry.  I told her it's unconstitutional to force your own beliefs upon a person.  This is not Somalia.  I don't think even other Somali's treat their relatives like she treats me.

Doringo

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People who always follow what the majority think when they know the majority is wrong are cowards and fools.

That said, it is wrong that she is forcing her religion on you, and I don't really know what you can do to stop it. I suppose you can pretend that you are following her religion but if she tries and verifies what you're saying and finds out that you're lying then you'd probably be in a worse position than what you were to start with.
All men are equal in death.