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[t49]

Hi Debora!

a couple of links for you

http://www.ra-chi.com/  Tell Rachel Tom says "Hi!"

http://holisticshop.ipbhost.com/index.php?act=idx

started this over an hour ago. don't know if anyone else has responded.

re:people getting sick and dying
this is what people do,especially if they are over 40

re: marriage failing
7 years seems to be the average life expectancy of a marriage.
many don't even get that far.

...  on that happy note,I think I'll stop typing.

Tom

[Rastus]

I would gently encourage you to get Robert Bruces book, Practicaly Physchic Self Defense.  If nothing else you can cross paranormal issues off the list of problems.  Most Library systems have a copy, or you can get it off the Internet here:  http://www.hamptonroadspub.com/bookstore/index.php?authors_id=86

I wouldn't dismiss a Negative influence too quickly, I'm of the opinion it's a little more common than most people think.  I base this on my work wtih the clinical depressed.

[eric m harrison]

to whom it may help. change air in the house. use a air cleaner to start clean all rooms of the house with ammonia to get rid of negs or  evil hates ammonia and other things the number four.four dimes in the corner of the house  see if that help.

[DeboraD]

I don't think I can tell you anything you want to hear. Is your husband hurting himself? Is he drinking or using drugs? If not, why can't you just let him go? If he is filing for divorce, let him go. Change can appear to be bad & evil but sometimes it is necessary for spiritual growth. Continue to meditate, it will give you comfort through your transition. Did the people around suddenly become evil all at once when your husband wanted to leave? Are these people telling you to let him go? The veil over your eyes....is there something they know that you don't know? Is your husband with another women?  
    Is he hurting himself?  No, not at all.  He doesn't drink and cannot use drugs since he's in the medical field and they do random testing nor has he ever had an interest in drugs.  No, the people around did not become evil and no one is telling me to let him go because they know he's not right, his thinking process, behavior and actions are totally unlike anything anyone has ever seen in him.  The veil over my eyes theory was given to me by a medium who claims this was told to her by family who have crossed over.  I don't know how I feel about this idea overall since it was a medium and my opinions are mixed about that whole process even as accurate as it was.  No, he's not with anyone else that I know of.  In the past we were together constantly and he has a tight work schedule so I always knew where he was.  He was never the type to go to bars or go out without me.  Right now he's just off in his own little world somewhere and won't open up to anyone or accept offers of help.

[t49]

a little more info might help. maybe we can see things that you can't.
PM me if you like.
how old are you,and your husband?
how long married?
like your jobs,and co-workers?
had a vacation lately? take 3. 1 together,and 1 each separately.
kids?
$$
home life? like your apt/house/city?


Tom

Also: did you contact Rachel?  http://www.ra-chi.com

[DeboraD]

Just last evening someone mentioned that I look into psychic self defense and after doing a search I found this site.  I do not know anything about meditation, negatives, nothing other than some general research I did this morning online.
    I will try to sum up what's going on with me and maybe someone can offer some suggestions.  My life has completely fallen apart and one bad thing after another is happening, sometimes directly to me, sometimes indirectly and sometimes just around me.  As one example, just this week in a matter of 15 hours I learned my father in law has terminal cancer, had a very stressful marriage counseling appointment where I heard my husband said he does not want to save our marriage, my best friend had a severe seizure in the middle of the night with no history of this whatsoever and the next morning my husband told me he was filing for divorce.  This is only one instance, things like this have been happening since last December, sometimes in groups like this and sometimes independently.  My husband has gone through a complete personality change to the point where we are all worried about him.  His actions are totally bizare and unlike anything we've ever seen.  He refuses any intervention other than the one counseling appointment and although he made another one for himself it's questionable whether or not he will go.  The best way to describe how I feel is that there is some kind of evil ghost around us changing our lives.  In the past I have gotten comfort from my Catholic faith and always felt people who have crossed over around me.  In the last three weeks I feel totally abandoned.  I have been praying to restore my faith and sometimes I feel it and sometimes I don't.  My main focus right now is my marriage and trying to help my husband to realize this is not who he really is.  It's like he's been taken over by someone new inside of him.  He does not have a strong faith like I did and does not in any way believe in any of the things I've read here so far so working "with" him on this is not an option.
     What I need to work on is myself and indirectly, those around me.  I spoke to a medium who I am acquainted with and she said people are still around me but they put a veil over my eyes to make me numb and not feel my pain.  I don't feel that way, I feel no one around me but evil people.  Last night someone suggested that I take some time to meditate, to sit and envision a white bubble around me to protect me, then to just think calm thoughts and pray,which I did.  I will say I did feel better doing that.  I need to get rid of all of this negative energy around us but I'm at a loss as to where to start.  I know nothing about stones, crystals or antyhing like that.  There is no one in my area who has any expertise with this either so it's not like I can go somewhere to find these things on my own.  Does anyone have any suggestions where I can start?  I need to stop this and get my life, our lives, back on track.  Thanks in advance for any help you can offer.