"Love Spell"

[aryanknight666]

Yes just direct some loving/sexual energy towards them,

[LiLRaverJay]

he sleeps with jade and moonstone, which helps hIm slighty, but not the way i want it.  i want him happy, but hes miserable to edm, and  i want him hear with me but he wont admit hes lonely


jay

[DreamWeaver]

I know what you mean the love of my life is in another's arms & I know he does not love her..She is a "grump"[}:)] and treats him like excrement.I think he is somewhat is afraid of her...she is psycho grump..LOL..
I am hopelessly in love w/him & I have loved him for 15 years.
He is engaged to her..[] [:O]
I know his entire family dislikes her.Igues this will be the end of my story..right?
My love tor him is pure & true..[]

[darkheaven]

Love spells are in my opinion ways to crossover the free wchoice of someone...i have the same problem and many times thinking if i shoul do it or not...passed over one year, dind't do it...

well speak with them...if they don't want, just love them..."free love"

[Kazbadan]

His she a romantic girl? If yes, what about this spell: send her some flowers[].

No, seriously, you could search on this site:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/

Accidentaly i have been conected to its mailbag but i am not sorry.

This guy is a pro and he have some twist minded ideas about how to deal with womens. Believe me that it is much better than any love spell.

-Kaz-

[LiLRaverJay]

thats a nice idea....
cept im gay.  so the usual flowers and chocolates dont work.

[DreamWeaver]

If You really truly love him tell him how you feel.[]
That Is what I am going to do even though my guy is engaged,I am gonna tell him I love him "speak now or forever hold your peace" sort of thing.
I am so scared to do it but I need to for my own sake & wellbeing.How can you let your love go unspoken?? I know I can't.
Even If he thinks I am a complete idiot I need to do it.[:I]

[Kazbadan]

LilRJ, i have no idea how can such techniques work with gay, but maybe they can have some nice results. I will be honest: i dont know if gays mind are different (in what concerns about  love and sex) from hetero minds. I really dont know that because i dont know anyone that its gay (well, i know one but he lives too far away from me) and in my country gay=taboo.

So, i am the kind of ignorant that it is still wonder if a gay it is sensible as women (as many claim to be) or if they like any other hetero guy (again: in what concerns about sex&love). I mean, you (gays) sensible and love romantic stuff or do you prefer acting a little more like heteros (think too much with "you know what")?

Sorry if i ofend you with this questions, but thats not because i have a taboo with gays. In fact for me, being gay, lesbian or hetero its a personal choice like any other (for example, i like tea but you may prefer coffee).

So, i ask this for understand your problem and your love and then try to help you.


DreamWeaver, does that guy feel anything for you? If not you need to be careful with what you say or he may feel some pressure. If he loves you or at least you suspect that, saying directly that you love him, in the right ocasion, for shure will create a flame in his hearth. I wish i would be lucky enough to have someone saying me that!

Btw, LILRJay, you said that there is something between both of you (you and your lover): why dont you make the same as DreamWeaver?

Coming back to DreamWeaver again (lol ) I have  a question for you: suppose that you are not in love for anyone and there is a guy that loves you (maybe you know that, maybe you dont). You dont love that guy but dont dislike him too (he is sympathique and funny,etc,etc). What could he do to make you feel atraction for him?

Dont speak me on give flowers and roses []...i dont believe that a girl willl fall in love for a guy just because of that!

I really like to hear your answer to that. Thanks

[DreamWeaver]

Kazbadan,

YES! I feel that he has feelings for me in fact I feel he is my soulmate,we have always had some sort of connection. As I have said before I have loved him since we were young I was 19 he was muct to young(then)he is 8 years younger than me...age to me as far as he go is not a factor..there was always something there between us I cand really explain..well maybe I can use the word enngery or electricity...I also feel that he is not very happy in his current relationship although he is "engaged".
I went to a psychic and she said I could be doing what she does..I have always felt I am very intutive.

As far as if someone was in love w/me and I knew that he love me and I don't love him but I don't dislike him either?? well maybe I work on getting to know him as a person..if we have common intrests..likes..etc..then we could see where we could go from there.
as far as being attracted to someone taht is chemistry..but they don't have to be handsome or anything just have that certain charisma
& charm mostly.

[DreamWeaver]

Also be yourself..become friends w/her and then maybe she will see what a wonderful guy you are..
you cannot make someone feel attraction..maybe a spell..but if you want her to have attraction on he own then..charm her get to know her,and maybe she will see what you already know..the wonderful qualities you have...that can for me bring me to have attraction for a person..if they have true beauty on the inside..

[LiLRaverJay]

"LilRJ, i have no idea how can such techniques work with gay, but maybe they can have some nice results. I will be honest: i dont know if gays mind are different (in what concerns about love and sex) from hetero minds. I really dont know that because i dont know anyone that its gay (well, i know one but he lives too far away from me) and in my country gay=taboo"

 To let you know, its a mix and match kind of thing for everyone. Just like one str8 guy is a romantic, or love football, works that way for gay guyz too.  It just depends on the person.
" In fact for me, being gay, lesbian or hetero its a personal choice like any other (for example, i like tea but you may prefer coffee)."
 Its not a choice?  Who in their right mind would want to be gay?  Do You know how much societial pressure,  assaults and suicides are based just on the fact that you're gay?


 And Jeremy and I both basically know how we feel, but we keep the emotions seperated.  Mostly.  He knows I miss him.   But the main reason why we broke up is because I moved to a different province for four months (from BC to AB), time was up August 1st, and I came home for college (BC).
So what keeps us apart is money, and the fact that he's miserable doesnt help (with his living situation...  he wants to be in BC, but in a different city than me, and he cant afford to move yet)

Oy.

[Tisha]

Wow, I was going to recommend the book "Why Men Love Bitches," but now I'm not so sure! []   However, the basic premise of the book holds true:  

Whatever is chased, runs

Bottom line:  You can't make another person do something he doesn't want to do, even with magic.  Free will and all that.  "Love spells" only work with people ready to fall in love with you anyway . . . they just move an already developing process forward!

My advice is to work on yourself (personality, looks, spirituality), to become the most obviously fabulous guy on the planet, in such a way that your love cannot but think "HM, I was an idiot."  But don't chase him.  In fact, pull back a little bit and see other people.  
Men need to "quest" for something.  They are hunters.  Never lose sight of this basic truth, and set yourself up to be a prize.  

Still, the dynamics with gay men are a bit different . . . two hunters hunting each other?  No wonder they hook up so much more often than women do []

That's all I can think of!

[Kazbadan]

quote:Originally posted by LiLRaverJay
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 Its not a choice?  Who in their right mind would want to be gay?  Do You know how much societial pressure,  assaults and suicides are based just on the fact that you're gay?

Sorry if i offend you...Basically i just wanna say that being gay or lesbian its the same as being hetero, in what refers to anything else. I was just saying that i see gays as any other person, and i say that for you to understand better what i was gonna say next. Indeed, if it was not for that reason, saying things like "Oh, gays are like normal people" its just a different kind of Xenofoby.

So, again, i say that to explain my next idea.

Sorry if i offended you and i must admit that i didnt thing about it: in fact its not a choice. I like women because thats my instinct. Its the same with homosexual people.

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Its sad to know your situation and Jeremy situation. Life its not easy, but if you think that you really need to end up with him (because of distances,etc,etc) just remember that there are more gays all over the world. If you have possibilitie, maybe you could move to a bigger place where gays are well accepted and where its easiest to find your soul mate.

The friend that i spoke in another post, the one that its gay, he moved from a little city, where people are more xenofobic to gays, to other much bigger city, where people can accept him better. In that city there is a bigger % of gays living there. He now feels confortable (he his aways from many of stupid friends that would make funny of him just because he his gay).

It was hard at begining, but it worth it for him.

[LiLRaverJay]

The move from BC to AB was the bigger city move.  It was great. But I had to return for college.  And about Jer & I.  I did something stupid while I was drunk a couple nights ago and sent him an email...  We're slightly talking about it right now, things are looking up.  Kinda?

[Kazbadan]

Good to hear that!

Keep going and carefully to do not "hit" is feelings (since you have done that before while drunk).

Good luck!

[DreamWeaver]

My Theory is "All is fair in Love and War"[}:)]
Well to some extent...[:I]

[LiLRaverJay]

You & I would get along great.  
Stay away from my man[8D]

[DreamWeaver]

haha..[}:)]
I don;t think he would like me I don't have what he wants..LOL

[Kazbadan]

But you have what i want []!


(we 3 are getting very bad and mad!)

[DreamWeaver]

Are you flirting with me my dear..? []
LOL..

[Kazbadan]

Me? Noooo....!

[DreamWeaver]

[][:I]

[LiLRaverJay]

hey everyone

Im lookin for a love spell.  But not a "love" spell, but more or less, bring back a lover, or clear the obstalces in the path.  

FYI;  theres already feelings between us, just need a booster