Anxiety around others? Hope this helps

Qui-Gon Jinn · October 17, 2002, 05:53:08

Gidday mate,

you live in Norrköping for a year? Does Nick Bosevski say you anything?

Anyhow, your method is working fine, I´ve used it for quite some time as a matter of fact, I came up with it myself I think, can´t remember I read it somewhere, just came naturally.

I don´t have many phobias, but one of them, and by far the one that has been disturbing me the most through the years, is that I have had problem with being looked at... like stage fright and with the world as the stage, kinda... I am not sure where this "fear" springs from, I have never had any problems resisting group pressure and the likes so it makes not so much sence... but I do know that this method has really helped quite a bit with relaxing... ¨'

Be well //Rikard

- Your focus determines your reality -

amcturbo · October 17, 2002, 07:27:33

Steve,
What is the name of the book you read? Thanks!

Cheers!
Greg Taylor

"Whatever consciousness may be, it's not a small thing" - Ingo Swann
"Oh, I... ain't got no ... body" - David Lee Roth (Van Halen)

aussie_swede · October 18, 2002, 01:20:20

I'm pretty sure that this book is quite commonly read but if it is not then it should be. It totally changed the way I think and is quite popular with New Age groups. Since reading it, I can not suggest it to enough people. It is called "The Celestine Prochecy" .By James Redfield. It is a must read. It also come with a partner book called "The Experiencial Guide." So if you dont find this book next to the Celestine Prophecy then try another book store. It should be on Amazon though. =)
Cheers
-Steve-
Nope havent heard of anyone called Nick Bosevski sorry.

Step outside the square you live in.

Mobius · October 18, 2002, 03:12:04

Hi guys

Yes good book that one "The Celestine prophecy". I bought this book a few years ago & "The tenth insight". Twas a very compelling story about gaining these "nine insights". All the insights are fairly straight forward & effective, especially his work with plant aura's & aura's in general.

Aussie_swede, for me the whole book flowed very nicely..................up until I got to the part about his theory on what happened to the Mayans, what did you think? I wouldn't have a clue what "really" happened to them, but it was a bit hard for me to believe that the entire population simultaneously arrived at some sort of coinciding vibrational rate amongst the populous & they all vibrated to a level where they became invisible to the average persons eye. And that because of this new vibrational state, the populous no longer needed material (solid) things including food as we know it.

It's not that I believe that doing all these things are impossible, I just don't think all that happened to the Mayans at that time,I might be wrong. They were a very advanced people with their maths & astronomy etc. but I'm not too sure about that one.

Cya's
Mobius

Tia · October 18, 2002, 03:54:16

There was a similar post here about sending a 'gift' to everybody you meet. I tried this but I could not do it with people I didn't trust/like. I just plain didn't want to give them anything, I tried forcing myself with some people and it felt wrong. Maybe I'm just not that spiritually advanced...

alpha · October 18, 2002, 04:42:06

Ive tried this technique too,I like it alot.Love is the most powerful force,im sure we all agree on that.When you send it out like that,I think its like a super shield.

I feel uneasy when some people stare at me too.Its like I know I am being judged and I can feel that it isnt anything nice.Especially when you come across those intimidators of the world.You all know them well I bet.

I dont know whether to look away or to stare right back at them.There have been times I want to say something.But I know that it would prob lead to a useless fight.So I just look away.And send some love there way,Not only to protect myself but I know they need it.
ALPHA

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"your divine awareness awakens all the love in your being.Hating and fearing forsaken,gone are the guilt and the blame.Your soul forgives,your divinity lives"
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alpha · October 18, 2002, 06:00:48

Was thinking more about this,And its probably a big reason why I always wear a hat when im out.I feel naked without it.

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"your divine awareness awakens all the love in your being.Hating and fearing forsaken,gone are the guilt and the blame.Your soul forgives,your divinity lives"
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Spirit Raven · October 18, 2002, 13:39:28

Hi,
I read those books several years ago and they were great. Quite a number of years ago, and before I read those books, I was taking a class and we were talking about "unconditional love". I was having a lot of trouble understanding how it was possible to give uncoditional love to people who were murderers, etc. Then one day during a meditation the answer came to me....you don't love THEM....you love the POTENTIAL that God/Creator has given all of us to always be more than what we are at this moment. That has made things easier for me. So, maybe you could try sending love to their potential self when you don't trust/like them instead of to them specificly. I hope this makes sense to you. You could also do what a friend told me to do during my drivers test so that I wouldn't feel so intimidated...imaging them in their underwear!

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As to what happened to the Mayans.....I agree, it's entirely possible. But....
You just never know for sure though and even if it isn't what happened there is no harm in keeping ourselves open to the possiblity.

Dance to the music of your dreams, enjoy the steps along the way and keep smiling!

alpha · October 18, 2002, 14:09:22

Heres something more Id like to add,
Its kind of like the underwear thing but diff.Try to imagine people as children,Its not really to far from reality.We really are just that.Except we have a whole artillery of defense mechanisms.Anxiety being one of them.

Ive only been playing around with this for a bit.You may get some interesting results.Careful not to start giggling.

http://www.astralpulse.com/forums/images/icon_Smile.gif" border=0>This also will make it easier for you to give love to all.

great thread its nice to know im not alone..
ALPHA

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"your divine awareness awakens all the love in your being.Hating and fearing forsaken,gone are the guilt and the blame.Your soul forgives,your divinity lives"
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aussie_swede · October 18, 2002, 15:30:55

Hey all,
Haven't tried the child technique. I will have to give that one a shot too. =) Mobius..Yeah it was a little far fetched. The friend who recommended it to me gently warned me of the ending. It was exciting to contemplate though. Imagine!..They could be walking amongst us today but we can't see them because we are not at a higher enough vibration. I definately felt awake after reading it though. It jump started my fascination with New Age. Im not much of a reader usually but this book made me into a fanatic. I was on the Internet, book stores..Everywhere. You can imagine my excitement when I downloaded the Aura Viewing tutorial and the NEW guide. But getting back to the topic..Tia. Yes there are some people I find it difficult to send to also. For me its those that come across quite strongly as being egotistic. If you have read then book then you will know what i mean by saying that I am a "poor me." Basically this means that when i am in a situation where there is a fight for energy/power/attention with another person, then if i lose then i sit there and sulk until somewhere come back to me to give me their energy/attention/power. This is called a control drama and everyone has one. But they can be overcome.
Sorry if you have already read the book but for anyone else reading, if you havent read this book then it is a must. Then you will understand what I am ranting about.
Mobius. Did you know that there is an eleventh insight book as well. Check out //www.celestinevision.com for more details.
Sorry bout the babbling

-Steve-

Step outside the square you live in.

aussie_swede · October 17, 2002, 05:40:48

Hey all,
I have a very simply technique that has helped me deal with feeling pressured or judged around other people. I noticed this feeling intensly when i was walking through the campus halls and people that were waiting for class would look at me out of pure curiosity but i seem to take it personally. I have read a book that talks about projecting love to people while in a conversation. I found that if i simply imagine love coming from my chest (or wherever feels good for you) then i felt much more relaxed and the pressure was about 95% gone! Just imagine that you are throwing love at them and that that love makes them feel good. Makes me feel like I am doing something good for them. Give it a shot and tell me what you think. Is there actually any type of energy work/transfer going on here?
-Steve-

Step outside the square you live in.

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