Astral Dating?

[StellarCat]

I had a very odd experience last night while projecting.  At first I thought I was having a lucid dream, but I had clearly exited.  I met this very handsome man while floating around an office building (don't ask me why I chose to go there).  No one else in the building could see me, but he grabbed my hand and kissed me with intense passion.    He kept telling me that he was the man I would marry and that even though we hadn't yet met in the physical world, we would soon, and that when we did it would be magical.  We kept floating around, just talking and we had so much fun.  I then came back to my body and woke up abruptly.  It seemed so real, the physical and emotional aspects, that I actually felt guilty when I thought about my boyfriend.

Well the whole experience left a lasting impression, but I decided to go to sleep and worry about it in the morning.  As soon as I drifted off again, I projected for the second time.  I went to this beautiful field of wild flowers and when I looked up, he was there again.  He said "I knew you'd be back soon." We spent some more time together and just had the greatest time.  Finally I came back to my body after frolicking for a while, and recorded the experience.

Has anything like this ever happened to anyone else?  What exactly does it mean.  Is he real person that I will meet or just someone made up in my mind?

[Kazbadan]

it seems that Frank had a more or less similar experience to yours (dont know the details).

Ask him. He is a moderator here in AP forums.

[Shadowflame]

That sounds so cool StellerCat! I've met at least two people that I know of but there wasn't any romance or anything. I met a girl once in what I think was a mall and I said "you can see me?" and she said "Yeah" and then I woke up. 2 weeks ago I met some guy who just wanted to show me his piercings. I was trying to teleport to someone's house but ended up over "Piercy's" house and I basically pretty much started ignoring him and I woke up.

I don't know if I'm really ready to start interacting with others yet. Right now I'm just focusing on being able to fly, walk through walls, and basically shape reality the way I want. Once I master that, then I'll venture out of my house (since everytime I project I don't leave my house--except for that one time I tried teleporting--and the time after that when I jumped out my window to fly but ended up floating gently down to the ground in my backyard)

[StellarCat]

Shadowflame,

I've met people while traveling before, but never had a romantic encounter.  I've encountered lecherous types, but never someone that I liked and wanted to hang out with.  I haven't projected since that night, but I want to meet this guy again.

What I really want to know is if he's projecting like I was and if he really exists in the physical plane.  I guess I'll just have to wait and see.

[Kris]

you guys are lucky you can AP...

[kooler]

you guys are lucky you can AP...

They sure are, I wish I could, I try almost every night, I haven't even gotten into the vibrational state

[Leannain]

same here.

[Meneleus]

Hi StellarCat,

Interesting experience.  It reminds me of the one Robert Peterson talks about in one of his books.  You can read it here: http://www.robertpeterson.org/7cffee.html

Take care,

Meneleus.

[Kazbadan]

Kris, i dont AP and i dont feel unlucky about that, in what refers to dating (but i feel unlucky for not APing, ´cause i love fly!!).

I mean, even if its possible to have an astral lover, etc, i prefer 100X more real love with a real person.

[StellarCat]

Thank you, Meneleus.  That's very interesting.  Definitely food for thought.  

[Heather B.]

StellarCat,

I really believe in "soulmates"!  I've been fantasizing about being able to meet up with my deceased fiance (whom I feel is my soulmate) and go on some awesome "astral dates"!  

I say "fantasizing" because I am just now starting to practice AP, specifically phasing.  My Beloved's death is my main inspiration.  So, here's hoping!

Good luck--I hope you learn more about your astral man!

[paint1]

Years ago I met a woman while projecting, who told me that when I was more mature she'd marry me. Four years later I moved to a new city.Some
one from work invited me to a party one weekend. As soon as I walked in I spotted this same woman. We've been married for quite a while now.She
doesn't believe in astral projection,etc.etc. & refuses to discuss the subject.

[Kodemaster]

StellarCat,

It definitely seems like you made a connection with someone. Perhaps you'll meet him on the physical plane one day. Good luck!

-Jeni