Help especially from those experienced with ghost or entity

[flip]

first apologized for the run on sentences, incorrect punctuations I`m in a hurry to type all of this please bear with me.


Ok this has been weird so far my young brother was hanging out with some friends at a hotel lastnight, first they were at a room then the tv started smoking so they switched room the management people said this was their last room, they were all hanging out 2 girls and one of my brothers friends then the radio turned on by it self, they didn't`t think nothing of it, but when my brother went to use the bath room he saw a shadowy human figure walking in the bathroom and it stop in front of his face he just froze and couldn't`t believe what just happen then he panicked and ran back in the room, all of his friends freaked out too he called my mom 4 in the mourning, before the encounter i woke up at 1:30a.m. during when this was happening I was at home.   If he would of stay home i wonder if all this would of happened?

it is now 4:15am right now as I`m typing this and i have some serious chills running down my spine and my hair is pretty much up I was trying to sleep  and i have some serious goose bumps but something feels wrong my brother said something tried tot take over him or something my brother screamed my name we share the same bedroom by the way so i turned the light on he was describing now in a shape of a animal form in his bad dream like a dog or something trying to get in side of him he couldn't`t scream at first finally did and I woke up

as I was sleeping I feel something weird like a cold chill in my body or something like i can sense something is near, I`m having goose bumps and some big chills running down my spine right now I never experienced this before, and it just now got even colder in my room as I`m typing this the time is now 4:25am

I`m not really scared right now but its just really annoying, I never experienced anything like this before could it be possible that this thing followed my brother back home???

1) why not the others and why my brother, could it might be a possible phobia from this event?

2) if this is a threat to me and my family how do I get rid of it, and how do I destroy it?

3) or who can I go to to help me and why would it come here.



what ever it is, I have a mom and dad and sisters I love them dearly they tinkle me off at times but when it comes to this, I would be ticked if anything happened to them, this is kind of a bad time for me to since i`m not exactly in good health condition .

I would sure appreciate it if anyone can help me

will hiring a priest to bless the house or a psychic specialist help me out perhaps

[James S]

Hi Flip,

Welcome to the forums, and thanks for taking the time to ask these questions. You may have done this in a hurry, but you've thought about it well.

I'll see how well I can answer your questions based on the experiences I've had with spirits & hauntings.

What I feel has happened here is your brother has been freaked out, probably rightly so, by a ghost seen at the hotel he was at.

There are two possibilities here -

1) What you and your brother are experiencing are reactions brought on by the fear of what he's seen. Such fear can seem to have a life of it's own, as a person in these situations can "radiate" fearful emotions. Do you have any pets that are tending to avoid him at the moment? Dogs, and especially cats are very sensitive tho these emotional states, even if you're looking calm on the outside.

2) Some spirit has followed him back, as this spirit has sensed something in your brother that makes it think he can communicate with it.

OK, first step - RELAX - DON'T WORRY.

The most important thing for both of you to keep firmly in mind is you're actually in far less danger than you may think. You and your brother first need to look after your own feelings here. Stop being afraid of what might be there, and stick with the thought that whatever it is,  it really can't harm you. Once you get to that point, the rest becomes a lot easier. Positive thoughts produce positive energies which are the best defence against any unfriendly spirits.

If you're brother is just manifesting fears of something, fears which he has passed on to you, this will bring about the end of it.

Otherwise if we go with the idea that some spirit has followed your brother home:

Your brother could be naturally more sensitive to "life force" energies. He might be able to see or feel ghosts where others can't. This can be like a beacon to spirits - somebody that can pay attention to them.

There are many ghosts who are still stuck in this world because they either don't know they're dead (they think they might be having some really weird dream), or they're trying to get a message to someone.

Imagine waking up and suddenly find yourself in another country where nobody can speak your language, and you don't know your way around. You try to ask for help, but most people ignore you because they just can't understand you. You'd get pretty frustrated, and if you see someone that you think can actually understand you, or is paying attention to you, you'll try and go to them for help. This is what happens with some ghosts.

Such spirits are really no threat. If you let them know firmly enough that they're not welcome, they'll leave. Your willpower, your intent can produce some very strong energies, and they generally can't resist this.

Worst case, your brothers had some kind of negative entity, usually made up of the refuse of people's fears or negative emotions, come back with him. A hotel's as good a place as any to pick up such an entity. Best thing to do in this case is get rid of any fear in yourselves which will attract it, work on being positive, which will repel it, then cleanse your house so it can't come back.

Do a search on the web for cleansing or clearing a house - there's a bucket load of sites that will give you info.

Go with something simple - it doesn't need to be elaborate. The important thing is your intent while you're doing the clearing that anything negative will be gotten rid of. Burning a Sage stick is one of the best things here, but it will smell like you've been smoking pot, so if you're likely to have to explain what's going on, avoid sage.

At this stage I wouldn't worry about getting the help of a psychic, and I wouldn't go anywhere near a priest. If it's a ghost you're dealing with, getting a priest in to do some kind of clearing or exorcism is like getting a security guard in to kick someone out of your house who doesn't know they shouldn't be there. All it does is really tinkle them off.

Hope this helps.
Blessings,
James.

[Wizard of Light]

Hi Flip,

James has given some good advice, I'd just like to add a few things to it!

One of the first things is (as James said) relax, stop worrying.  This stuff does seem scary and weird and horrible at the time, but you need to remember that NOTHING CAN HARM YOU OR YOUR FAMILY.  Fear only feeds these things, so there's no point being frightened.  Keep focused on things like the love you have for your family.

Yes, spirits can decide to follow us, they may decide they like your energy, or may have seen that your brother was aware of him and so followed him home.

Next thing is to clear your house.  There are a few options here, but I'll post my suggestions.  I use a sage stick the most for any clearings that I do, however there are other options (James is right, it does smell like pot).  These are:
* 'dragons blood', which you can get in an incense stick form or in the resin form and burn over a charcoal disk.
* 'frankincense' or 'sandalwood', which you can get in an incense stick or aromatherapy oil or powder/chip version to burn over a charcoal disk.

You need to go right through your house, starting at the front door, and paying attention to all the corners in each room and the windows and doors.  Announce out loud that anything not of the highest intentions/of love and light (or something along these lines) is commanded to leave immediately.  As you walk with your chosen clearing agent, visualise white light filling the whole house.  You should finish up at the front door again.  Oh, and you may like to call on a higher power (god, angels, guides, etc) to assist you in doing this.

If you can, have each member of your house visualise white or golden light coming down from the heavens and surrounding themselves in a bubble of white or golden light.  This will increase their own personal protection.

There are also some good crystals you may like to place around the house, to help keep the energies clear.  Amethyst clusters are good for this, and black tourmaline is very good as well.  They don't have to be huge pieces or anything expensive, and are probably best placed in the room(s) that are frequented the most.

Hope that this has been of some value.  I'm more than happy to answer any more questions relating to this, and wish you much success!

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Hi thank you so much for the response, its 1:30a.m. I couldn't`t get any sleep last night so I woke up late I tried to resume my normal activity I have work in the mourning too like 7 in the mourning. Everything was fine this mourning at least and close to night time to I felt calm and warm feeling like before but when i tried to go to sleep...

I can`t really go to sleep when I try to I keep getting almost like a panic attack, something or anxiety feeling ( my brother was in the living room playing video games with a friend of mines by the way he seems normal now) and I get these weird tingling feeling towards my chest, and random weird thoughts when I`m sleeping its almost like disturbing thoughts and they don`t make sense to me either,  I`m not sure if their mines or not they don`t seem normal though,  I`ve never experienced this before this isn`t like me to experience such things whats really making it great is my health I`m suffering from a sexual dysfunction I had an accident long story I`m trying to recover but when i can`t get a good nights rest it slows down the healing process.

I`m no psychic or anything I mean 2 years ago I used to meditate but I stopped I got caught up with daily activities like a normal teen, I used to get this weird pressure on my forehead so I stopped that was annoying but it went away slowly.  I`m gonna try to go to sleep I`ll see what hap pends tomorrow

1) by the way where can I get the supplies for clearing and cleansing?

I`m new to all this I hope I`m able to do it right at least. Its so embarrassing I`m actually having my parent sleep next to me lol and I`m in my 20`s I`m not exactly scared I just want my nights rest so I can recover with my health problems, some how I think  It happens when I tried to sleep by my self

2) I`ll have to make more analysis since its still to seen to jump to conclusions right?

I`m just hoping this is all in my head what do you guys think? I want to thank you soo much for your response, my brother seems to be doing fine now but I`ll keep you guys posted and see what happens.

[Wizard of Light]

Greetings again Flip,

If things are settling down now that is great!  I would still do the house cleanse - you can usually collect what you need from a new age/occult-type specialty shop.

As I said before, focus on the good things in your life, and try to keep focus off this stuff.  

Remember, you can surround yourself with white or golden light at any time you feel the need.  Same goes for calling on your guides, angels or any higher power that you feel comfortable with.  They are always there to help.

Do keep us updated.  Blessings to you through this time.

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Thank you for the response, I didn't`t get a good sleep last night I slept late and I woke up a couple of times same with my brother, It does seemed like it calm down Little bit for one I didn't`t get the chills and goosebumps anymore like the first night when this first hap pend, my brother said he just woke up with his heart pounding.  

I did manage to clean the room I opened the window to ventilate some fresh air and open the blinders wide open so the sun could brighten the room it feels so calm and positive when i do this at least the atmosphere feels more positive.

we didn't`t experience anything scary in our room like things floating objects, TV turning on etc never happened at all , some how I don`t have that feeling being watched anymore either.

could it be possibly might only have been like a negative energy my brother ended up clinging on to or something.

1) As for cleansing the house I don`t think I can find any new age shops around here, will it be ok if I have the priest bless the house?

2) I do see like psychic reading shops around etc. do you think they would have them? I seen some advertising about crystals

[Wizard of Light]

If they have crystals, they may well have the sage or incense that you are after, so yes there is nothing wrong with trying that.

You can have the priest bless the house if you want to, there is never any harm in that.  At the very least if you think it will make you feel better, then why not?

Cleaning up the house - I mean physically cleaning up, getting rid of all the stuff you don't use, etc, will probably also help.  This helps the positive energy to move through the building far more easily.

Keep well!

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Hey I just want to thank you guys for helping me and for the great advice , things are back to normal, me and my brother are able to sleep peacefully now, I ordered some black tourmaline crystals since I have a hard time finding stuff around my area I`m thinking ordering some smudge sticks, just to be safe anyone know any good websites they recommend?

thank you