I'm TOTALLY NEW & NEED GUIDANCE! So MANY PROBS.........

[elijah]

Hi all
I'm totally new & need real guidance from u all:)

I've got many probs in life (the most important one I can't disclose) like:
low self-esteem, procrastination, shyness, I funmble & behave like an idiot when someone stares at me or when i get too conscious (this is so annoying), low self-confidence & motivation.

Can I change all this? With BWG or something? Plz tell me how.

Plz help me. I really need it. Don't know how to begin.
I'VE READ THE FAQ.

Can someone direct me to POWERFUL audio downloads which will help me in this regard? To transform myself into a confident person? I'm just 22.

I wanna go into projections, obe's etc. but right now getting over my problems is more important to me.

Hope someone come forward to help. BTW the holosync alternative download link does NOT work.

Plz reply soon:)

Take care
Elijah

[mactombs]

Hmm. Are you a teenager? If so, I might suggest that you have many fewer problems than you think.

BWG and so forth aren't going to fix anything. There's no magic bullet, no quick fix. Things like this take time, and fortunately so. All of these things that you need help with are going to help you to grow (I know, that's not the answer you want).

low self-esteem, procrastination, shyness, I funmble & behave like an idiot when someone stares at me or when i get too conscious (this is so annoying), low self-confidence & motivation.

I've been there. You may have an anxiety disorder, but I don't want to make any diagnosis that a professional should be making, and again, medication isn't going to suddenly make everything better (especially if you can do without). I can, however, suggest something that might help. You could get into martial arts. The right dojo can help in quite a few of those areas, learning self-confidence and self-discipline. Getting involved in other sports would have a similar effect, I'm sure.

I'm pretty sure you're going to get over all these things eventually. Try to relax and take it one step at a time.

[David Warner]

Elijah,

I do agree with Mactombs on what he had to say. Astral Projection won't solve your problems. It might make you look at life a little differently in some ways, but I think it could cause more confusion then positive.

There's a trained hypnotist who created this self help tapes back in the 70's-90's who is Barry Konicov. There are a few subliminal tapes for self confidence, anxiety, stress and many more that might fall into your category. I've used one of his tapes for astral projection and still listen to it today.

http://www.mindenhancements.com/

This might help and again it might not. I would write down on paper if I were you and identify the problems you are struggling with. At least, you'll have a clear picture on paper. Then review on-line these problems one by one and see what the solutions and help that can be offered. It might be as simple as affirmations, or finding help from a trained physcologist.

Hopefully this helps and I wish you the best!!

Tvos

[elijah]

Well thanks for ur suggestions...but I've really heard that u could slowly change urself through self-hypnosis and suggestion which can be probably achieved by BWG or Holosync. The link mindenhancements has no free downloads - and I really can't afford any of that. Ain't there any free alternatives? Why isn't the holosync alternative link not working? Its not there anymore?

I'm not a teenager...I'm 22, And these problems really take a toll on me.

How do I get into a trance/suggestive state easily?
I'm sure there must be some free audio downloads out there in this regard.

Thanks

[David Warner]

Elijah,

That web site is geared to professional help and additionally astral projection for fun and spiritual. BGWEN also charges as well for their presets. The link for the Holosync I do not know what happened to that.

Your best bet and probably you've heard it before. Like anything else in life, its not free. Astral Projection takes 100% mental/physical energy. Its just not a 1-2-3 step of listening to music and you're off in never never land. Without saying much, I would invest in getting a job if you've not already, save a few pennies and pursue what interests you the most bgwe, self-hypnosis tape. Even doing a little on the side work helps too.

You can read up on my posts, journals and what its taken me to reach astral projection. Read other people posts as well too. So much to learn.

Tvos

[CaCoDeMoN]

Can someone direct me to POWERFUL audio downloads which will help me in this regard?

I think that audio downloads won't fix your problems. You need much more work. I think that Vipassana meditation would help you greatly. It's designed to gain a conscious control of thoughts, and when you acheve this, problems like shyness or low self-esteem can be easily eliminated.
http://www.vipassana.com/meditation/mindfulness_in_plain_english.php
Here's a link to an excellent book about it, but ignore all the philosophy, it's very negative.

[hypnotist1]

Hi Elijah,

I can help with your SELF-ESTEEM build up.  Been doing it for 14 years with hypnosis.

Will set something up.

If you have any questions about Hypnosis please leave a post or PM me or e-mail me and I will answer them for you.

Sincerely,
Frank ( hypnotist1)