A Curiosity

[cainam_nazier]

I have a request, possibly a strange one for some of you.  I know that no one here knows me in person.  You all only know me by what I write, so you only know the part of me I choose to share here.  But I will make the request anyway.

I would like to know what the people here think of me.  You know, what is your impression of me? What do you see are strengths or faults?  Things like this.

It would help me the most if people were honest, brutally if need be.

I feel a great need to change, to grow.  To work on the person that I am.  You see I know what I think are my strengths, weaknesses, and problems.  But I, being highly partial, may not see them all.  So I would like input from as many sources as possible.  The more I know how others view me, the more of myself I will see.  At least that is my logic.

Anyway, thanks for taking the time.

[CFTraveler]

Right off the bat I think you're wiser than you think you are.

[Leilah]

from what i've read,  you seem to be a nice fello.

but why woud you want to change according to other peoples opinion of you. in my opinion, the only person who knows you most - is you - and it is only you who can decide what your true stregnths and weaknesses are.

[Leilah]

whoops sorry about the above post, i guess i didn't read your last paragraph as carefully as i should have.

so therefore, i think your logic  on this matter is crazy!