Anger

Tom · January 06, 2003, 09:59:32

Lots of people who think they have a bad temper and who cannot control their anger are mistaken. From my observations, I found that it is usually a much more complex mixture of emotions and the strongest is that they feel they have been hurt by someone. From my own experience I know it is one thing to feel anger and another to feel hurt, disappointed, sad, and hopeless all at once. Pure anger is a lot easier to work with.

auraseer · January 06, 2003, 12:59:47

Hi,
Squeek, you are like me. I do not take offense to being taken the p*ss out of. I bottle it up inside of me without knowing.

Your anger is there, you have to release it.

Cya,
auraseer.

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Squeek · January 06, 2003, 13:11:07

Hm well thanks.

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Marge: Homer no..You'll kill us all!
Homer: Or die trying!
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Squeek · January 07, 2003, 16:13:30

Hey i tried my best to remember anything in my life at all that enraged me at the time and drew a blank :p Wow.

~~~!
Marge: Homer no..You'll kill us all!
Homer: Or die trying!
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kakkarot · January 08, 2003, 13:00:26

maybe it's cause you just don't care. in order for someone to hurt you, you have to care about them, right? so in order for someone to get you mad, you have to care about the situation, right? so maybe you just don't worry about anything enough for it to get you angry.

and that is actually a good thing for ki training. you don't want to be angry, you want to be focused and determined. becoming angry pushing you along a very dark path indeed. i'm speaking from experience here.

~kakkarot

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Squeek · January 08, 2003, 13:31:45

Yea, i didnt care at all...because they never inflicted pain on me. I always blocked punches right before they hit and they got hurt more. After an attack they were the ones walking away rubbing their arms and I just kept talking. Sorry, just a little background on me :p

~~~!
Marge: Homer no..You'll kill us all!
Homer: Or die trying!
!~~~

kakkarot · January 09, 2003, 13:36:48

don't be sorry for the background. it helps us get to know you.

but, guess what, i think i'm practically the complete opposite of you. my emotions are quite strong, and they swing in any direction depending on the situation and other factors. but i've only ever been in one fight in my entire life, and that one i got into because i wanted to find out what fighting was actually like, not due to anger or anything else.

my emotions can be on the verge of making me want to just forget my morals and just hit someone or destroy something, but i always keep it bottled away and release it when i am alone. i guess it's safer that way.

~kakkarot

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Squeek · January 09, 2003, 17:58:16

Heh i've been in one "fight". The guy tried to hit me about 10 times and failed, because of blocks and misses, and i punched him once on the arm and he fell and slid 10ft. I just walked away :p

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Marge: Homer

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Homer: Or die trying!
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Squeek · January 06, 2003, 05:46:30

You can call me odd, but in my 17 years of life not once have I completely lost it. Everytime somebody tries to get me angry, somehow, I just shrug it off. This is somewhat a good thing, but not for KI purposes. If I need to release anger I can't because I have none

http://www.astralpulse.com/forums/images/icon_Smile_tongue.gif" border=0> If this doesn't seem different to you, keep in mind that I never lost my temper. Ever.

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Marge: Homer no..You'll kill us all!
Homer: Or die trying!
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