I hurt a dear friend.....need advice

[Cincy_Joe]

I am a 29 year old guy and was wondering if I creeped out/irritated a girl (28 years old) I knew I worked with that I would like to be friends with without doing it intentionally if I leave her TOTALLY alone, will she eventually forgive me for being a creep? or should I just forget about her as a friend and let it all go?

You see she used to like me, and wanted to get to know me, and wanted to be friends cause I knew her from back in elementary thru HS school but unwittingly kept her at arms length do to inner-security issues. She is a Cancer like myself, but has been abused by former boyfriends so she is hurt and sore to say the least.

We got to talkin at work recently. She pointed me out to see if I was who she thought I was and we seemed to hit it off great. She offers her phone number to me without me asking for it. I give her mine out of curtosy. we eventually got talking some more and went out on a 'catch up' date at some restaurant. we go back to her place(she invited) and just joked around and talking about our experiences our psychic gifts. Nothoing sexual happened, I eventually let myself out and we talked at work some more. Things went downhill after some misunderstandings and miscommunications. And now management has stepped in to tell me to leave her alone even though I rarely speak to her at work. I talk to this one girl behind me more in 1 day than I have talked to this "friend" in a week striaght. What gives? Maybe you girls out there can tell me where I messed up so I wont hurt someone else again.

Anyhoo, if I leave her alone 110% for however long, will she ever forgive me for being a creep. Or am I hoping in vain??

Thanx-

[Cincy_Joe]

Hello?!?!?! No one has nothing to say here? Dont tell me I'm 'creeping' you guys out too......

I just want to learn from this and not to EVER, EVER EVER EVER EVER do that again to anyone else...

{Thought you guys had ascended knowlege or something...}     

[AmbientSound]

Walk away. That's the best thing you can do. She alone is responsible for her own feelings, it doesn't matter what happened in her past. That is for her to decide. If she decides to forgive you, she will let you know, but I wouldn't wait around for it. Expectation often leads to disappointment.

[SHSS]

I agree with Ambientsound.