That's it i have to face the astral plane help? They want me!

[yondaime109]

A few hours ago I almost had my first conscious obe and i think it has been because i think about it all day. I was half a sleep than all of a sudden i start getting paralyzed and i can't hear myself scream and can't open my eyes I feel something pulling me (almost longing for me), but I focus on wiggling around.

[Lionheart]

 They want you, or you want it? Haven't you been trying for months now? I would call this a success. Lay back and enjoy it. It will be what you wish it to me. If fear rules your life, then you shall find a lot of fearful things there. Go in with a positive attitude and love in your heart and you will find a wondrous world to traverse through!  

[yondaime109]

I've never tried because i know for a fact that if i did i'd do it on the first time. Part of me doesn't want it because I'm just going to make one big mistake and get a poltergesit the rest of my life and other half wants to get out and see whats out there.

The problem is I am constantly switching between the two sides due to emotional instability so when my Aries sun does something annoying,self,impulsive,insensitive,etc my cancer moon immediately makes me regret that decision.

[desert-rat]

I dont think astrology has any thing to do with what looks like a basic fear .    I have that fear to , but I found a bunch of other stuff in the way also . Repressed beliefs ect.   desert rat 

[CFTraveler]

I've never tried because i know for a fact that if i did i'd do it on the first time. Part of me doesn't want it because I'm just going to make one big mistake and get a poltergesit the rest of my life and other half wants to get out and see whats out there.

The problem is I am constantly switching between the two sides due to emotional instability so when my Aries sun does something annoying,self,impulsive,insensitive,etc my cancer moon immediately makes me regret that decision.

But the idea of 'making one mistake and getting a poltergeist' is absurd- I have known dozens of experiencers and not one has had that problem.  So one thing is to worry about possibilities (everybody does it) and to worry about anything, even the unlikely.  That's another problem that you need to conquer.  You can't go through life being worried about things that are extremely unlikely.

when my Aries sun does something annoying,self,impulsive,insensitive,etc my cancer moon immediately makes me regret that decision.

That is also a copout- blaming astrology on your personality is just another way of giving your power away to something you can't change.  Many people with 'contradictory' signs can function.
Desert rat is correct- you are assigning blame in a way that makes you continue this way of thinking.  There are things you can do if you don't want to continue this way of dealing with life, and not assigning blame.
If you are afraid of projecting stop thinking about it- if you can't, then find something to dedicate yourself to that isn't this- find something that doesn't frighten you, in the material world.  Make a decision, and stick to it.
If you decide to do this, then go all the way and do it, but frankly, I don't think you should.

[desert-rat]

This may sound "new agey " , but visualize your self in white light.   The white light will protect you .         desert rat 

[linemile]

You won't ruin your life if you try to AP. If you concentrate on light and happiness, you'll recieve just that. If you just relax and forget about all the bad, negative thoughts, you won't have to worry. Good luck!

[Contenteo]

I am a semi pro astrologist (could make money if I really wanted to). Astrology has everything to do with it. But that's a discussion for another day. I am not writing a book here... ...

Well... I'll be short. 
Are you a guy or a girl? From what you wrote, it sounds more like a female manifestation of Aries. In fact, an Aries guy projecting would be a rarity all in itself.

So...
Stop over-thinking it. That's what's really happening. Make decisions and sticking to those decisions despite changes and occurrences in your physical life. These judgments from other is probably what is really eating away at you. Yeah, I got a feeling that is what is really what is going on here. You are probably getting some slack from an outside party that is making you feel this way. Ignore it. Do what you want to do. But set your goals and achieve them, or you'll just be living in your head forever. Yeah, yeah, I know its all comfy and cozy, up there. But the key is that all that is really giving you is a dose of unhealthy worry.

As for your cancer moon? I think you are just regretting decisions. Let's not blame the moon. Regret is natural.

I hope this helps. 

Cheers,
Contenteo

[desert-rat]

You might want to read some of the books written by Robert Monroe .  He did meet some ghosts . The 3 that I can remember.  He just bought a house , he went out of body met the old owner , she asked "what will you do with my paintings ?" He told her that he liked them and would keep them .  Another ghost was of a man that had fallen off a ladder and was sad that he had died in that manner.   The third was a boy that had been shot and killed by the police while robbing a store .   Ghosts are just people with out a body . desert rat