seduction

[jc84corvette]

Yeah but why do we need to seduce women?

If the bolth of you are in love, this is not needed.

[xander]

quote:Originally posted by jc84corvette

Yeah but why do we need to seduce women?

If the both of you are in love, this is not needed.

Love is a rare jewel, not all will find rare jewels. For them it is good to have substitutes. like really GREAT SEX!!!! Really great sex doesn't require love.

Xander

[jc84corvette]

I disagree. I think many people find love.

[xander]

quote:Originally posted by jc84corvette

I disagree. I think many people find love.

depends on perception and definition of "love". out of 6 billion+ people there are many who find love, but also many who don't.
I find a lot of people are happy with just someone to make love to on an occasional basis rather than the stereotypical "boy meets girl relationship"

Xander

[Nagual]

The "problem" I see about "common" love is that it's more the love of the self than "real" love...  Many times, when I ask someone why he loves him/her, I get something like:

"I am happy with him/her"
"I feel complete"
"I like his/her mind"
"She understands me"
"I ..."
"I ..."
"... me"
"... me"

For me, that's not exactly what I expect love to be.

[wantsumrice]

Have you ever tried NLP? Many people say that it works wonders, but personally, its just toooo corny for my style []

~ivan

[Anonymous]

Love is not a very difficult subject.  It is when you want to take care of them, make them happy, protect them from danger, give them nice things every once in awhile, work with them, play with them, die for them.  Pretty simple right.  Not to someone who is not in love but when you get there you understand perfectly.  You know the difference between knowing the path and walking the path.

That may have sounded like self but when it comes down to it it will be yourself that does the loving.

[jc84corvette]

You will know you love when the person comes. My only advice.

[Arie]

now...some of you women might find this weird, funny, interesting, or crazy....but i feel like sharing some of these concepts that i've learned in my pursuit of the study of seduction.

Robert greene applies seduction to social or sexual which i thought was curious...but here i want to apply it to male/female relationships.

Now...in my study of ss by ross jeffries....i have learned that there really is no difference between detailed instructions on where to go and a detailed description.

So...how can you apply this to seduction? Well...first off. What do women want? They want to feel good. Of course. How can us...men...help women feel good? By describing certain mind states such as joy, exctasy, peace, deep connections...etc. Remember: if you make your descriptions vivid enough...it is nothing more than a detailed instruction on how she...the woman....can feel it.

So...if you just came back from a run...and your girl-friend asks how was it...instead of saying "good" you could say..."it was incredible...you know that feeling where its like you just feel unstoppable and you feel really light and carefree? Her: "yeah" You: "well...its seemed to envelop me during the run...almost as if i was in heaven."

Now...if you describe it like that...with all the emotion you can muster...with the right tonality...you will make her feel amazing.

Oh yeah....use this at your own discretion...i am not responsible for the use of these tools.

Notice when i described the run...i used the word YOU...and not I......i did that purposely so she would be more willing to feel what i'm describing....i'm basically describing my experience in HER point of view. get it?

that's enough for now....later

ps-another cool attitude to have regarding seduction is "every woman wants to be seduced...they might just not necessarily know how"