defense for baby

[Nagual]

Just wondering... do you think the mother is doing it purposefuly...?
If she is doing this unconsciously, what about trying to convince here of what she is doing?  She might change her behavior...

[xander]

quote:Originally posted by Nagual

Just wondering... do you think the mother is doing it purposefuly...?
If she is doing this unconsciously, what about trying to convince here of what she is doing?  She might change her behavior...

I don't think she realizes she's doing it. she's....picture a kalidescope with no boundary. She's so caught up in herself she won't listen to anyone regarding anything. She's extremely defensive and aggressive.

Xander

[Dark Knight]

If the kid has a hernia that shows, wouldn't calling social services be the answer.

Metaphysical symptoms don't show up but God, that kid should be removed from the home just from the physical aspect of it. How is a person screaming non-stop taking care of a small child?

[Nagual]

What about the father; the family members?

[xander]

quote:Originally posted by Nagual

What about the father; the family members?

The father is no where around, and the baby's going to the doctor next week to fix the hernia.

Xander

[Mustardseed]

Go talk to the Mother. Stand up and be counted Xander. Tell her she is influencing her child and that you would like to help her. Then if she yields give her healing Prayers or whatever , talk to her and find out where she is either hurting or has neg influence (drugs etc) look for signs of dark arts, possession or overshadowing. Talk softly and try to win her. either that or be silent and see the child suffer!!! We have all been there Xander, it is a tough choice.....to speak up or not to speak up, that is the question. My prayers go with you.

Regards Mustardseed

[xander]

quote:Originally posted by Mustardseed

Go talk to the Mother. Stand up and be counted Xander. Tell her she is influencing her child and that you would like to help her. Then if she yields give her healing Prayers or whatever , talk to her and find out where she is either hurting or has neg influence (drugs etc) look for signs of dark arts, possession or overshadowing. Talk softly and try to win her. either that or be silent and see the child suffer!!! We have all been there Xander, it is a tough choice.....to speak up or not to speak up, that is the question. My prayers go with you.

Regards Mustardseed

I have spoken to her. She is willfully ignorant in many ways, she claims she's not doing anything wrong. I do sense some overshadowing. My freind who babysits for the kid says one time she went to check on him when he was napping and she saw a bunch of grey human type shadows standing over him, they had very stern grim faces.

Xander

[shedt]

I really don't know myself much about this, but i would say if you have contact give it energy. send him love and energy. pray for the child, think about the child. creating positive thought forms. ask for help from Buddha or whatever you believe in. when you are with the child imagine something protective. if you AP maybe vist the baby in the realtime zone.

[Aries]

I would say call Social Services to get the child in a new home.
Also while your at it you may want to slap some sense into the mother.. Im not a violent man, but what must be done must be done.
-Aries
"Im not a violent man" just a god of war... go figure

[TheSeeker]

Sad stuff there.  I don't really know what you can do but pray and possibly talk to the mother.  I don't think you can tell social services that she is draining energy from the childs crown chakra, they'll probably take you in custody.

[Mustardseed]

The world is full of situations like this. What does your belief have to offer such a woman Xander. What can you do for her in the way of helping her and the child. Anything. Seeing grey aliens and sensing overshadowings have no practical application. A 10 yr kid could see something is wrong but what will you do. Do you have a solution.

Go ahead make my day Xander.......ask me!!

[Dark Knight]

I don't think little grey aliens are involved in this but I appreciate your sarcasm Mustard [8D]

Xander, My original suggestion stands. Soemone has to call whatever child welfare agency there is in the state or talk to the Doctor who will be looking at the kid. 2 inch long hernia, it should never have gotten that bad, I call that neglect. Reach out to the mother after the kid is safe, if she rejects you, there's very little you can do. But you can help that kid.

[Aries]

I agree with dark, call child services on the lady. If she is as messed up as your saying then they shouldnt have any problem just taking the child away from her
-Aries

[Mustardseed]

obviously none of you are parents. I would be very carefull about calling the Child protection agency if I were you. If she has harmed the kid go ahead but if it is just your opinion and an overshadowing feel free to share with them this fact and add that your friend has seen aliens around her. If we are lucky they will take the 2 of you instead and we wont have to discuss this again. []

Joking aside. Xander what will you do? Can you do anything. Are you even sure in your diagnosis. It seems very extreme.

[James S]

I have to agree with mustardseed on this one. Calling the child protection agency will be of no benefit unless there is irrefutable proof of physical abuse. If the American child protection agency is anything like the Australian one, they will be so flat out trying to deal with genuine abuse cases that they won't give this a second thought.

A hernia is no proof of abuse. It only proves that the child has had a problem with the abdominal muscle wall. Only if enough people register their concern with the agency that they believe the child is in danger of psychological damage from his mothers outbursts will they possibly act - probably in the form of councelling.

These agencies will only take a child away from its sole parent as an absolute last resort, as this would be far more traumatic for the child than staying with a mother that shouts and screams a lot. Remember, that for all her faults, that little boy still loves her unconditionally, and to break that bond is devistating to a child.

Xander, from what you've told us already it sounds like this lady is still on speaking terms with you. I would not suggest going anywhere near the topic of the child's energy or anything remotely percieved as supernatural when speaking to her. I've a feeling this will just make her switch off. Until she can somehow be brought to realise what her raging might possibly be doing to her son, if even only on a normal psychological level, and possibly be led to calm down, any other course of action here is likely to only treat the symptoms, not cure the cause.

She needs to reconnect with her love for her son.

I sincerely hope you are successful in anything you may do to help make this situation better.

Regards,
James.

[Aries]

I myself am not a parent, but thats because I am not ready to be one.
It sounds like this lady is messed up, and thats only going to mess up the child. xander should just project and go and cut off both of there attached beings etc etc
-Aries

[xander]

How does one heal a baby that is being drained by it's own mother?

The little boy is about 1 1/2. He's got a hernia over 2 inches stickin out of him. His mother is a narcisstic rageaholic and constatntly screams. I have had other people comment on being able to see a strong flow of energy flow from him to her, when he's around her he behaves like he's in a trance, listless, lethargic, etc. One girl I know who reads auras said she also noticed a silver cord attached to his crown chakra and it leads to his mother.

How can I help create a barrier for the child so his mother stops feeding from him?

Xander