Urgent- I can't watch her suffer anymore, help-

[widfis]

Me?  A psychic vampire?  What would lead you to beleive that I could be one?  And how could I be one unwittingly?

If it's true I wish I woulda known earlier because I shelled out a lot for a white gold necklace for her birthday when silver is quite a bit cheaper...

[caveraven]

Hi widfis!  I'm a naturopath and natural healer who has helped people with this problem, and sorry, there is no easy answer.  You have to help her untangle the maze of what's happening, as it will be a build up of different factors, and then one thing will tip the avalanche into a full-on headache.  I look at the diet, as caffeine, cheese, tomato, etc can cause them.  I use acupuncture, if there is an imbalance in the body's energies underlying.  I mainly, however, use massage, both deep tissue and reflexology, to get to the built up tension in the neck/shoulder/scalp, but also to help the person get to a place where they can enjoy being in their body.  Also, herbs can help relieve both the symptoms (feverfew IS brilliant for this) as well as the imbalances in the body as a whole, tho' go to someone good if she is on medication as you don't want interactions.  With some people, yes, there can be a psychic attack/hook component, and I work on that at the appropriate time, when the being is ready to release it.  

I have worked with people who take their painkillers "like candy", get constipated and toxic from them, who slowly wean themselves off them coz they don't need them as much because the massage is working.  Then when they are less toxic and bowels start to move again, they can see an improvement, so they are more ready to be motivated into making the changes in their lifestyle that they can see need doing.  If there is trauma in the past, some type of counselling may be needed to heal these areas.  

One of the best books on massage I have read recommended daily self massage of the area at the back of the head where the neck muscles joins the skull.  The author prescribed this for treatment for hormonal disruption, depression, headache, you name it, because the major blood vessels which enter the brain have to pass through the neck.  If the neck (and the area where they attach to the head) are tightly spasmed, there is a constriction in the blood supply, so the whole hormonal feedback is interrupted because the blood flow is.  So perhaps as part of a prevention program she could massage some form of massage cream (?Aromatherapy massage oil- lavender would be good)into this area, lots of types out there, but a cream is less gukky in the hair than an oil.  

I find that working with migraines is like peeling away layers, and it is always exciting to find what level we will be working on in each treatment.  Healing is a journey, not a destination.  And we use whatever tools are appropriate at that place in the travels.  But try to get her to go to a healer who can look at her whole "map".  I know this is general, but i hope it helps.  

PS  Migraine sufferers will commonly be light sensitive.  Does not have to mean there is an attachment or attack.

[widfis]

Hey-
So I have been with this girl for a year now and have noticed that she has very frequent headaches.  She said that she has had them for the past seven years, and she even went to the doctor this past month and they couldn't figure out whats wrong with her.  She has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder (means shes overall kind of depressed and changes moods frequently). Last month she has blacked out on a few separate occasions also.  Tonight we were laying on the couch watching a movie having a really really nice time and then before anyone knew what happened she had a very very powerful headache- so strong that she had me take her car home (she had picked me up from my place earlier that night)because she didnt think she would be able to drive when I had to leave).  

This really really sounds to me like some sort of powerful psychic attacks.  I feel like some sort of neg found that shes easy to feed off of for energy and so it will change her moods so that emotions are running through her which provide more usable energy for the negs to feed off of.. It's just a theory though.

Does anyone have any suggestions?  It was really really hard to see her feel so horrible tonight!!! Is there anything I can do to maybe ward off what seems like psychic attacks? Is there anything I can have her do?

The worst part is maybe I'm the crazy one here but I almost feel like the negs are influencing her actual feelings because tonight I tried to get her to turn the all lights on in the room because I heard that negs dont like light but when I asked her to she said "No!  Light is bad!... it hurts right now!"  She is such an intelligent girl aside from the fact that I love her I feel realy bad that this has to happen to her!

Everything I've said is 100% true... can somebody please help ??